i like him alot,so much i think i love him.i stare at him,with the thought of only being friends.he gives me little hints,about him liking me,but when i want to say something,i always think,"what if he is just a flirt?"because he is a very flirtacious person. sometimes,i try to make him jealous,just to see what he will do,but i dont know if it bothers him.can you give me advice?i want to tell him i like him,but fear the rejection.i dont want to mess this up.thanx-ash
2006-08-30 10:07:50 · 15 answers · asked by Ashleigh(: 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please just tell him.
2006-08-30 10:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ash dont tell him. Us men do not like to be told that. We get big headed immediately and start punishing her. Go slow. Make him chase. Try to be a good friend to him and he will realize. But a friendly advise; whatch out for those over flirtacious ones. Sign of a week personality. Good luck
2006-08-30 17:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Turk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have an answer, but if you find one could you tell me? I am in the same spot, with a very good friend of mine too, and he has dropped hints and stuff, but he has also told me before that he would never really consider it, now I am starting to wonder. Right now what I have decided to do is just to stand back and wait, for him. If it is true love, it will be worth waiting for, right? And if it isn't, you will have saved yourself some awful heartache and embarrassment. That is what I am doing, maybe you could try that. I have been waiting for a long time.
2006-08-30 17:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by 2shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away from the situation and give yourself some space from him. Absence makes the heart grow stronger. Maybe by just being away for him for a little while will either clear your head, and or make him really think about you and if he really likes you like that.
2006-08-30 17:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well try not to lay it on him too thick or you will scare him. Slowely does it but try to break it to him in a way that he will understand. take a bit of time to think about it and sort it out before you approach it. Good luck
2006-08-30 17:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. My biggest regret in life is that I didn't tell my best guy friend how I felt about him. Take a chance and good luck :)
2006-08-30 17:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give him a note and don't make him jealous that will just make him not like you especially if you do it alto with different guys and if you do it with the same guy he'll be like ill never get her she likes another guy
2006-08-30 17:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a great friendship, then why ruin it!! Do not push the issue, and sit back and enjoy a great friendship!!
2006-08-30 17:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me.. he was my best friend in the whole world and i had crush on him this year. as i told my friends that i like him they sed that you should tell him. soo i told him and then i made him promise that he wouldnt tell. and i still have a crush on him .
2006-08-31 19:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by //k!mberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him out right, so there is no guessing about it. i was in that situation for a long tym and she ended up with someone else.
2006-08-30 17:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by cob_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know! have him and some friends over to play spin the bottle
then if you kiss him he will automatically know!
2006-08-30 17:13:04 · answer #11 · answered by divaoffashion3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋