my girl friend refuses to give me head, so i told her i didnt want her touching ti all togather, and when ever she tries to touch it i grab her hand and tell her no, im trying to teach her a lesson, and when i do this she gets pissed, how much longer should i do this and what will happen if i keep on doing it will she get pissed or stop or what
2006-08-30 10:02:32 · 13 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. for all u who think i am bad we dont have sex, we never have had sex, and i eat her out all the damn time and it tase like crap but i dont say anything because as long as she has fun i am ok with it
2006-08-30 10:18:09 · update #1
Then she may learn to associate your sausage with bad thoughts altogether and move on to another man's hot dog.
2006-08-30 10:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a issue with it. I guarantee u 99.9% the reason why she doesnt want to do it is because she doesnt know how to do it and is EMBARRASSED to try or say so.(Or she probably has this "holy" image in her head that "it" is unacceptable. Girls like this are just worried about people judging them.) Dont make her feel worst by shunning her, communicate with her. When u become more open and see things from her point of view she'll open up as well. Work with her. Do u perform head on her?
Relationships are give and take, and if u like receiving h ead she should at least TRY to oblige. Good luck stud
2006-08-30 17:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're trying to teach her a lesson?? Um...hello, is your girlfriend a dog???
Frankly, I think you're wrong for doing this. Your basically punishing her because she won't suck on your teeny weeny? Come on! Be for real!! Some girls just don't like to suck on it.
Be a little bit more compassionate! Maybe she has a really bad gag reflex. Maybe she's had a bad experience with someone else in the past.. Or maybe she just doesn't like to do it! Why don't you try talking to her to find out what her reasons are. Hell, maybe you smell down there and between the stench and having your hotdog shoved down her throat it makes her sick! Who the hell knows?!
If you really like/love her, you will respect her in all aspects, including what you two do in the bedroom. What is done in the bedroom can be very pleasurable whether she sucks on your dinkydoo or not.
2006-08-30 17:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by my_lil_buttercups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never use sex as a weapon; it will only drive you apart in the long run. You are being very unreasonable, it is common for women to be grossed out by giving head.
Respect her decision, and let her get touchy-feely with you in other ways, otherwise you risk losing this relationship.
If you want oral sex so bad, maybe you are not right for each other anyway. Only time will tell.
2006-08-30 17:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep that crap up, its about to ruin your reltiaonship. So what she doesnt want to give you head? maybe shes not confortable with it or doesnt find it amusing, but happy shes even trying to touch you down there cuz she could be prude and not touch you or kiss you at all... quit that **** out.
2006-08-30 17:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by STFUbeezy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, one day she may want to touch it and go further, you may be actually stopping her from going down on you all together. Some women just need time, but if you don't even let her put her hands on it how is she ever going to put it in her mouth!
2006-08-30 17:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by smoody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want her to give you head. Just have sex. In this situation you're missing out. Then again so is she. Neither of you is getting sex.
2006-08-30 17:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it up and soon you will find yourself all alone...as in, you will be the ex. You are being totally unreasonable, controlling, and unfair. Why would she even want to touch your limp sausage?
2006-08-30 17:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should stop having sex with you altogether. I'm sure she can go much longer without having sex then you can.
2006-08-30 17:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok giving head is totally gross (no i have never done it to a guy before) so if you keep pushing her into doing something then she wont want to be with u andy more.
2006-08-30 17:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋