Ok so I've just lost my v to my boyfriend and well we've done it a couple times already but it still hurts when we start? How long will it be before it stops hurting everytime?
2006-08-30 09:45:49 · 35 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about some advice from a dirty old man ? If it still hurts I don't think you're doing it right. The man must be patient and get you hot before making any serious moves. Your natural lubrication should make it easier, plus the fact that you'll be so horny you won't notice pain. In my experience (I'm 59) the woman is good to go anytime after her first few times. Relax and enjoy yourselves. (Use a condom).
2006-08-30 10:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take some time to get used to him/his size. Try different ways and tell him when it hurts and when it feels better. Some positions hurt more than others, and a lubricant or additional foreplay may help. If the pain persists, you may need to see a doctor. There are certain medical conditions that can cause pain during sex.
2006-08-30 09:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it get's more enjoyable in time... I didn't enjoy it at all for several times after my first. Here's a good way to make it easier in the start... make sure he get's you REALLY warmed up first. Have him finger you for a while and get you rea;;y ready to recieve him. And have him enter very slowly, not all at once! I've been having sex for years and if a guy just jumps right in it still hurts!
And please remember to practice safe sex, ALWAYS! No matter what rumors you hear, you can get pregnant ANYTIME. And condoms don't protect against all STDs so get check out regularly!
2006-08-30 09:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by CrimelessRaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your body, hun. It took me several months before it stopped hurting (all the time). My best advice is to make sure you are in the mood (not just him) and that you are very wet. If you aren't wet and are using artifical stuff like KY it could continue to hurt because your insides just aren't prepared. If this is the case, make sure you have lots of foreplay.
2006-08-30 09:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone, but I can remember it hurt me for a while. I think a couple months. This was just to start, then it felt better.
2006-08-30 09:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me even a few months in with regular sex, it still hurt easing the penis in at first. Your vagina just honestly, has to get used to stretching to the size of his penis for it not to hurt. I remember it would hurt during the first few pumps, but after that it was a cakewalk. Just get through the first few seconds of pain, its really no biggy.
2006-08-30 09:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure your lubricated enough before starting and just relax. If pain is still occurring than get checked out by your gynecologist. And use protection.
2006-08-30 09:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by GIngin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a couple more times and it wont hurt anymore. it took me a few times to get over the pain. i know how you feel.
2006-08-30 10:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by swtcocoa231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably still hurts because you're anticipating that it will. Relax and enjoy the time...don't think about it so much and you should be fine.
2006-08-30 09:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by camryn010703 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will stop hurting pretty soon if u do it a couple of times then it just feels plain good..
2006-08-30 09:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋