2006-08-30 09:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by rm38358 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should both talk about it, and try to give her a time of healing. but u cant love someone if u still not over ur ex, cause ur still inlove with ur ex. she might still be inlove with her ex and trying by all means to love u the way u love her. its difficult to getover something that really meant the world to u once, but if u both give each other a freedom of speaking, u might work it out. she is the one who isn't over her ex but she will need u to getover her him. so, be her second hand. good luck.
2006-08-30 09:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by tender-boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want to be 2nd best? Look babe if she's not over her ex, then she's using the term love very loosely. Are u still in love with ur ex? No. What if her ex was to come back and ask her "lets get back together". Then what? You'll be all alone feeling cheated because u shoulda gotten rid of her first......................And even if he doesnt ask her back, doesnt the fact of knowing he could have her whenever he wants bug you?!
Ur girl should not have started a new relationship if she wasnt over the previous one. If u let this fester, and not act, then you'll end up hurt. U have to wonder, is she just using u to pass the time?If u had to come here and ask, u know somethings wrong.
Find someone who is into u and only u!
2006-08-30 16:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they cant get over there ex (as in they still love there ex and are constantly obsessing over what theyre ex is doing or could be up to) then they dont really love you and would probably go back to that person with the drop of a hat. you need to talk to the person you "love" and find out exactly what they feel and maybe one day they'll really get over there ex & see the great thing in front of them, *you*
if its meant to happen, it will <33*
2006-08-30 16:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is still some attachment there. I would communicate the importance of each of you to the other, but indicate that it bugs you too that you're not being placed first in her relationship with her.
come across as understanding, but firm
2006-08-30 16:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by extr3333mely_handsome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then that meens she doesn't like u like that or loves u cause if i love someone i'll totally be over my ex at the time
2006-08-30 16:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that person and find someone who will be devoted to you.
2006-08-30 16:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋