My friend is 21 years old and she's dating a guy who's 35 yrs. old... can you make a list of reasons why she shouldn't be dating him.
PS: The person who gets "Best Answer" has to list off 'tactics' older guys use to manipulate young girls.
2006-08-30 09:44:09 · 10 answers · asked by Loving Life 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Experience counts in dating and relationships:
1. He will try to isolate her from her friends
2. He will put her down and then say he is sorry
3. She can never dress right in his opinion
4. He will demand all her time
5. Everything is a test of her love for him
6. He will cheat on her and not feel bad about it
2006-08-30 09:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Wander 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with some answers, like him being more experience but she could have easily dated some who's 21-25 who has just as much experience as the guy she's dating; i think dating some close to my mom or dad's age is just ugh, gross.
1.) Men who are older (29-up) know that they can manipulate a
girl by preying on her emotions and have them doing things
they wouldn't do with boys who are in their peers
2.) Older men know ways to take advantage of a young woman
(17-21) that no young man (17-21) could even know,
because the older man has lived and learned many things
that us young people could never imagine
2006-08-30 10:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by msfortier01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. a 36 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous. Nope, that's completely positive, properly, in my e book. i'm a guy, 18, and that i'm relationship/placed on carry, my lover who's 26. Age is in basic terms a quantity, and you will't placed an age the place love might desire to be. If the two yours and your companions love is physically powerful then what-ever cares with regard to the age. enjoy existence. in basic terms be happy. in the journey that your happy being with a guy two times as previous as then you definitely bypass. that's fairly as much as you-base line.
2016-11-06 02:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt seem like a huge gap but men have a shorter life span than women. That age difference could mean she could become a widow much earlier than if she married a man her age or younger.
Manipulation? Hmm, it's possible, but more likely he's looking for someone to have children with as opposed to a woman say his age which is 35 and women have more difficulties with pregnancy at that time.
Sorry, I cant find anything really bad about the age difference.
2006-08-30 09:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just the mind-set. He is older therefore has more experiences behind him in all areas. By the time she is his age I promise you she will be a totally different person. Her interests will have changed, her tastes, ect. But HE on the other hand is close to being set in his ways at this point in time.
2006-08-30 09:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-he is close to the age of her dad
-if they get into a long relationship he will be dead before she gets old
-she might just be in it for the money
-he might not want a serious relationship because hes going for "young girls"
2006-08-30 09:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by madchiman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bible say you should marry a girl half your age minus 7, hence your friend should be marrying a guy 56.
2006-08-30 09:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why , would it matter what a guys age is .as long ..as he loves you? me, i want a younger love but ..theres so much drama now days ..i am afraid . to even chat online ..with someone younger for fair that they will lose it and call the Five-o on me ..
and i don't use drama to make someone love me !! i dont need to!
2006-08-30 09:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by CuddlyHotGuy38ForYoungerSwf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are over 18, age shouldn't be a factor- you are an adult and can do whatever you want to do.
2006-08-30 09:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think is bad but i don't think is good either cause an older guy has experience and probably he's using her for sex
2006-08-30 09:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋