Can men and women ever truly be friends if both are straight?
Or are you always thinking about sex?
2006-08-30 09:42:52 · 62 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, I've had girls that are just friends, and still do. They're all ugly and/or fat as s hit....or I'm sure I'd want to nail 'em
2006-08-30 09:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by HughGRection 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being a man and always thinking about sex is what you said you are talking for a lot of men I can only speak for my self as for your question yes do you have a true friend if the answer is no your probably getting what your giving its a true reflection of your self if you cant call any one a friend or i assumed you don't' and I'm a complete *** yes i think most guys are idiot's but boys will be boys as the old saying goes if you can get pass all the insecurity's and there ego trips you might make a friend take my self for example I'm 49 just learning to come to grips with all my personal baggage and i have it together no really i do i do OK that tells you right there i don't its OK here's my point if and when you fell good and you love your self truly love your self then you will have so many genuine friends you'll have to sell me a few because you would be getting what your giving and we all know what that is just in case you don't know its...........LOVE thanks for you time Dave office #800-348-5719 Goldhilltrading@yahoo.com
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2006-08-30 10:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by goldhilltrading 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lots of female friends. I don't buy that women and men can't just be friends. I might think about sex with them once in awhile, but that doesn't change anything. You have to act on it to change it. I've had friendships with women for long periods of time and it never got in the way.
2006-08-30 10:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Star_Zero 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a long distance friend has been personally testing me on these grounds. Every time we physically see each other I want to jump her bones, but that would totally kill the friendship.
I really think it helps if they are ugly and far far away. I think that element of sex is always dangling ever so close with friend love that it at times seems like romantic love.
2006-08-30 10:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by extr3333mely_handsome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friendship between a man & a woman is possible but it is my belief that there will be some type of tension on one or both of their behalfs.
1. You would have had to already have had sex and dissolved the sexual tension.
2. He might be attracted to her and she's not to him.
3. She might be attracted to him and he's not to her.
You might not always be thinking about sex but it will probably enter your thoughts at some point but some people fight to maintain their friendship and not damage it with sex.
2006-08-30 09:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had u nips as my friend....ooohh aaahh..how could I not think of SEX?? But really....if the friendship is mutual and the bond is truly just that ...then no but if a slight little atraction is evident its very difficult ...Sex is always on mind of every healthy person its just..who are you thinking about..thats all!!
Again....if u were my friend...it would be hard not to resist the temptation!!!???????
2006-08-30 09:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by fxbeto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that it's not possible. I think that one might like the other at some point. I have had friends that end up being attracted to me. Or I couldn't be friends with my ex. He just wanted to have sex. Soo from my expeirence, I don't think things will work out.
2006-08-30 09:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible, but it is still very hard. I have a two really good guy friends that will never be more than that. But, we still flirt with eachother a lot. But, we know eachothers boundaries and feelings about eachother. It just takes work and communication to make a guy/girl friendship last.
2006-08-30 09:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bobi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes defi!!! i think at a certain point sooner or later yall will have feelings for one another!! both of my 2 best friends are girls.. ive gone out with one of them, and the other ive had feelings for her while she had a bf, and she' have had the same to me when i had a gf but we never been together.. we no longer have anything, and they are both my best friends.. we sleep over each others houses., sleep in the same bed many of the nites, but nothing goes on other then good night and a hugg b4 we lay down.. so yea u can, it really depends on the kinda person yall really are.
2006-08-30 09:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by myownworkchief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some female friends that I don't think about sexually,...but not many. If you were a friend, I'm fairly certain that I would be thinking of sex on a fairly regular basis. Does it mean that I would pursue it? ....Hmmmm,......am I in a relationship at the time,....all things considered,.....Wait, sorry, Nips, I was talkin to the girls,...sorry.
2006-08-30 09:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by longhair140 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my personal experience, i'd say it's possible. i have a few female friends who i consider "one of the guys" not because they act like one of the guys, but because they are such good friends that i cannot think about them in a sexual way.
there are always those very attractive friends though that, even though you have a hands off policy and think of them as a friend, you still sometimes wonder.
so it's a yes and no. as far as i know they are my true friends... but with some of them i somtimes wonder "what if?"
2006-08-30 09:49:11 · answer #11 · answered by kiss my wookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋