do u think life is fair..??? for me its not...im arab...strict family....im very openminded...but i dont have?

Question

freedom.
im 29 years...single.....im not allowed to have a BF... what more shal i say......i tried to run away... but i couldn't i don't know how to depend on myself...i don't have many freinds they r all arab ,,,, but not like me....they don't think the same way i do

Answer 1

I am not sure where you are writing this from. If you are living in an Arab country then there is not much that I can say that would help you and I would not want anything bad to happen if you ran away.

If you are in the US, then at 29, you are an adult. There are options for you although it would probably mean angering or upsetting your family. If this is the struggle than yes, it is a hard decision. But while you are struggling with this decision, life is passing you by.

Look for a women's shelter to stay at if you lack money. While you are there, find a job, any job to save money. Get to know other people that share your views. Your parents may never understand this but you have a life that God has given you. What will you look back on and remember? That you did not have the courage to live it? I left home when i was 16 and it was so hard but i had help from my friends and a job. Eventually i had my own place too. Ask God (Allah) for the courage you need to have the life you were born to. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 2

Not quite sure what you're asking here? If you are being mistreated or something like that then there is help there . I feel bad for you. Thats all I got to that subject. Good luck..... Read the Book "Not without my daughter by Betty Mamoody. I think that's how her last name is spelled. Perhaps it clearify's a few things for you.