My boyfriend and i have been together for like 4 months now and everything has been great. But all of a sudden a couple of days ago his whole attitude toward me has changed. He isn't being mean or anything but his body language, the way he looks at me and the tone he speaks to me in has changed out of nowhere. We didn't get in a fight and i haven't said anything mean for him to over hear so I don't really know what to think. Due to medical reasons I haven't been able to have sex for like a month, do you think that miight have something to do with it? I haven't left him high and dry or anything we have been doing other things to please eachother. PLEASE help me I just want my perfect wonderful man back!
2006-08-30 09:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs to get laid
if you can't help try to see if you have a friend that will help out
threesome will make him smile
2006-08-30 09:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Befor you jump to conclusions, talk to him about it. Relationships ebb and flow. They go through stages. Sometimes you love each other madly, sometimes you need a break, sometimes you need to reevaluate the relationship so that you can work out your problems and move forward, sometimes other things in your life are overwhelming and you unintentionally take it out on the other person by withdrawing. First ask him if there is anything going on in his life that is bothering him before assuming it is the relationship if nothing has happened to indicate that the relationship is the problem. Also, if he has cooled off towards you, don't crowd him; find other people to hang out with and other things to do while he figures things out. Let him know that you are there for him. Don't blame sex--men all over the world have to forego sex for more than a month for many many reasons (including medical, childbirth, illness, and ahem, being single), and any man who can't cope is dangerously self-centered. Be strong.
2006-08-30 16:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't know exactly until you ask him. If you are trying to do other things for him so he will be happy, I don't think that is why he is upset with you. The fact that you don't say I am out of commission until I am better. I applaud you. He has no reason to mad for this.
2006-08-30 16:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just misses the sex, have you tried to talk to him and find out what the deal is, because talking to him may answer a lot of your question. But if you are giving him oral sex than i dont see what the problem is. just talk to him and see what is on his mind. has he been staying away from you? guys can be weird ya know . just talk to him and see what is going on.
2006-08-30 16:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by kelley_blues26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say try a BJ or handjob, but the more I think about it, sounds like you might be better off without him.
The answer is to talk about it with him.
2006-08-30 16:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by HeadacheZone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and ask him what is bothering him. Don't accuse, but tell him you have noticed he has been a little different or distant with you lately. If he asks how, just tell him exactly what you have said here. Then really listen to what he has to say.
2006-08-30 16:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rule Number 1: Communicate with him about your concerns. #2 Be patient, he may have troubles he is so far unwilling to burdon you with.
2006-08-30 16:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..He obviously isn't emotionally attracted to you, and apparently you are, he probably has lust for you. Or maybe it could be because you had the "medical reasons" or STD's!!!!And he is afraid he could contract it.. If you have an STD, don't be afraid to say it.. I think you are sexually frustrated. ;P
2006-08-30 16:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by A_2__the__E__Adrenaline 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well guess what not having sex is the problem had a girl wou could not do it and oh man was i so mad at har every day
2006-08-30 16:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do not assume it is all about you or your relationship
When you ask us,you are asking the wrong people. Ask him.
2006-08-30 16:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋