I'm a 24 yo old who just found out I'm pregnant. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow with the OBGYN to see how far along I am. My boyfriend and I are together and they like him a lot.... I just want to know how I should tell this to my parents considering I'm in college still and live in their house still.
2006-08-30 09:20:41 · 19 answers · asked by Medic Jenn 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It is hard but it something i have been through. I was 23 when I had to tell them I was pregnant for the 1st time. I was in college and dating a guy a year and half. I had to move home. Yeah they were disappointed but they loved me and decided to help me out a much as they could. Yeah it wasn't what they had planned for me and I was so close to finishing college. 28 hours. It wasn't what I had planned either but I have no regrets. I took the time out to have a kid and I got a job and an apartment near my parents house. After the baby was born I knew they loved me and they love their new grandchild. My fiance and I are still together and we have a beautiful 2 year old. First of all decide what you want remember you are an adult. You make choices not them yeah maybe this wasn't planned but God allowed it to happen for a reason he doesn't make mistakes. Tell them like an adult and decide ahead what you are going to do.
2006-08-30 09:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Starla366 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no right way to tell your parents. I think you should discuss with your boyfriend wha your plans are going to be, whether you finish college, how your gonna support the baby and so on. When that is decided and you know who and where you are gonna raise the baby, then I would tell your parents with your boyfriend present. Telling them that it was an unexpected surprise, and that you've discussed all the in's and out's and want them to be there for you. They may be disappointed but you are a growen woman who can make adult choices as you have done. Good luck and remember you are about to experience a whole new world. I hope you are happy about this baby and then you can enjoy every moment from now on.
2006-08-30 09:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by - 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until your appointment tomorrow so you can give them all the facts and just tell them. 24 isnt like your 16 or 18. The worst they can do is tell you to get your own place and if you are 24 thats not such a bad idea. Good luck with everything!
2006-08-30 09:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell them. After the initial shock, I'm sure they will be excited to be grandparents. They have no choice but to accept it cause it's already done. It's not easy but you should be excited too and don't give up on your education, work hard now it's gonna more difficult once the baby arrives but at least you have support from your boyfriend and hopefully your parents as well.
2006-08-30 12:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by ColeBaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them! They love you they will get over it. A lot of times our parents surprise us about there understanding! I was 20 when I found out I was pregnant and surprse to me my parents were happy and threw a shower and were there when the baby was born. If they are not happy they will get over it the first time they see that beautiful little face
2006-08-30 09:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by rye252000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your relationship to your parents, whether or not you plan to keep the baby, if you think you and your boyfriend might get married....a LOT of "what ifs".
Go to the parent you feel you have the best relationship with - then tell that one in a quiet "just you two" time about it. Be prepared for a lot of questions - including the ones above.
Good luck
2006-08-30 09:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by physicsmom04 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Simply say "Mom...Dad....you know how you thought you where so close to being able to relax now that I have grown up and near close to finishing school?"
"Surprise"...."My selfish butt just spoiled any chance of that"
Dumb @ss - ever hear of protection? God forbid you should have a job, a home of your own, or at least a plan. So what, now your parents get to help you raise your kid? Heaven forbid they get a break.
2006-08-30 09:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by rab2344 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just sit down with them andl et them know they might be supportive and it will be a big burden off your shoulders. just please finish school i am 29 and had my first child when i was 17 i had started college after he was born and then got pregnant again 2 yrs later and dropped out of school it was a big mistake..Good Luck with the baby!!and the parents
2006-08-30 09:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your boyfriend to be present when you tell them. It might make them feel better to know he loves you and wants to be a father to this baby. I would tell them flat out, and try not to be defensive if they get upset. You're going to need their support now that you're going to be a mom.
2006-08-30 09:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by S. O. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you go down to the dinner table, instead of saying, "Pass the salt, mom." or "Could you pass the rolls, dad." refer to them as Grandma and Grandpa and see how long it takes them to catch on.
2006-08-31 05:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋