after my ex dissed and dismissed me. he called and begged me to take him back since i was still in love with him i did. now he is acting like i am the who he begged him to come back and treats me like i am beneath him. i feel like kicking him in his **** and then do to him what he did to me. is that wrong
2006-08-30 08:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by jules 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't kick his butt and catch a case. But do move on with a new hottie and flaunt it in his face! Jerk!
2006-08-30 09:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong...Just stupid. If a man dissed and dismissed you why would you get back with him. Sometimes even when you love you just gotta let go. Just because you love someone doesn't mean they love you...
But really....you are beneath him if you let him treat you like you are beneath him. You can only be treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. Don't try and get him back by being an a s s back to him. Get him back by moving on with you life and finding someone better who will treat you the way you want and need to be treated.
Sorry if it sounded harsh but it seems like you like that...
2006-08-30 09:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow me to quote your own words.If it is to be, it is up to me. You are allowing him to be a jerk. You sound very sensible. Show him that you are a better person than him. Tell him that you have had enough of him and get yourself a man that will treat you with the respect and love that you deserve. Do not make the mistake to judge all men by his actions. As far as I am concerned he is not a man but a spoilt little brat.
Good luck.
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2006-08-30 09:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you're not wrong for feeling that way. He took advantage of your good heart and your feelings for him and then treats you like garbage?? you have every right to be angry!!! I had a bf once who after I broke up with him he got drunk and arrested for drunk driving....he called ME to bail him out and when I DID he acted like it was MY fault that he got arrested....needless to say that did it for me....They are not all jerks though, I promise...it only seems that way. I found an awesome one and you can too! you deserve better! Best wishes!!!
2006-08-30 09:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl it's time to dismiss him to the curb. Tell him their will be no coming back this time. He will treat you like this over and over. Time will then heal your feelings of him.
2006-08-30 09:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by lkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve that kind of treatment, you are better than that and it seems he is insecure and is emotionally and mentally abusing you. Get out and find someone new.
2006-08-30 09:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by GIngin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY - where are all the girls admonishing you not to say that ALL guys are jerks?
Oh... yeah... that's right - we're talking about GUYS - so blanket statements are quite alright.
2006-08-30 09:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person that does you like that really doesn't deserve your love for him.
2006-08-30 09:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not wrong, I think you should go with your instincts on that one because they seem right on. Please don't judge all guys by this a**hole either. We're not all like that.
2006-08-30 09:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by ask the eightball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb
2006-08-30 09:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by so_fast420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋