2006-08-30 08:53:21 · 15 answers · asked by lusty 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Do not tell her she is fat. Suggest an activity that you think might be fun. Be spontaneous. It could help put the spark back. Whatever you do, do not make it seem like you're doing it to make her lose weight. Make it seem like it's something you want to do for yourself, and that you'd like her support. If you love her, this is the only way I can see that wouldn't make her feel self concious about it.
Not everyone is a shallow person for wanting their mate to be healthy. Who wants to sit there and watch someone kill themselves slowly by overeating all the time? I'm a firm believer that overeating is slow suicide.
2006-08-30 08:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Poison Ivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a tactfull talk with her about wanting you both to start getting more exercise and eating right.Get a Richard Simmons tape and excercise with it and invite her to join in the fun. Think about the fact that she may be depressed.Depression causes lack of motivation.Eating better and moving can help depression.Good luck.
2006-08-30 16:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back...Why did you marry her, remember all the good times you had with her and remember that you love her, and because of that you should get over being shallow. If you were fat and your wife felt that way with you, she wouldn't EVER go to and internet site and ask this ques. she would stay by your side and endure it all. Think about it.
2006-08-30 16:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by darkangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try planning romantic activities together, which involve some light exercise. It could help her to lose weight and also get you into the mood. You could try going for walks in the evening, going camping just the two of you which involves hiking, etc.
2006-08-30 15:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really so mean.how can you think like that.if at all you liked women looking at thier body then you should have been selected a thin girl and got married.
give me your wifes telephone number i'll speak to her.
2006-09-01 07:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by priyaedesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember when you got married...FOR BETTER OR FOR WORST?I think you should go back the day you swear and accepted her to be your wife....being sexually satisfied is not by having sex with a sexy wife...but its how you deal and be artistic...remember there are a lot of different positions you can apply....
2006-08-30 21:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till the time she starts loosing weight let her take the top position, after the initial love making
2006-08-31 03:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by pali@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up... YOU married her. if she was already fat (or getting that way) when you married her, it's YOUR problem, not hers. if you still feel all "not satisfied" maybe you should BOTH go on a diet. exercise with her... don't act like a jacka$$!!!
2006-08-30 16:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Vol_Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say your wife that n force him to less her weight then u r not satisfied u should have do acting that u hve a affair with a beautiful girl .then your wife wll under stand that should less her weight
2006-08-30 16:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by apurva k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her. Ask her to lose weight and go with her, help her. Also, you should love her for who she is, not her body.
2006-08-30 15:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋