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My boyfriend of nearly 3 years and I went out with a friend of mines. We all had a fun time. He would then ask me to get my friend's email address and I told him I will ask. My friend said no. He would then kept pestering me for it and I told him she doesn't want to but he thinks I was lying to him. So he asked to forwarded the message, in which I did in the condition that he won't contact her. Yesterday, she forward the email he sent to her. And though it was friendly, it went against her (and my) wishes. I was very mad that he went behind my back so I told him it was over. But instead of saying he's sorry, he just told me to have a nice life. We talked a bit last nite but he just don't wanna hear it. I agree to give him space but I am not sure if he is ever going to come back to me. Will he want me back after he had his break? I know I'm going to get the "move on" comments but please I need real advice on this. Thanks!
2006-08-30 08:17:38 · 9 answers · asked by RDC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok
dont panic and i know u are at this present moment
what u did was not ur fault
so i suggest for u to stop blaming yourself for this
now give him space
but call him every other day
keep the convo short
remember this
happy talk, small talk, happy talk, small talk
keep it consistent
do not argue with him
if he argues with u dont argue back
keep ur emotion at bay
do not try to convince to get back to u
let ur natural talent and ur personality do the work
continue doing this and he will start opening up
email me if uneed any more help im very good at this
peterfl999@yahoo.com
2006-08-30 08:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want him back? He doesn't care about your feelings and wishes, and hits on your friends. He may decided to come back to you, if he feels he can walk all over you, do what he wants, and gets away with it. To me this guys sounds like a user. Hopefully you'll realize your better off.
2006-08-30 15:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by PAgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really will be better off. A guy that is looking to talk to your friend right under your nose, is definitely not a guy for the long term.
2006-08-30 15:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Al J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to find out about him now, then you wasting your life on him. Close that page of your book. I know it is going to be hard. it is going to take time, but be strong, do not beg him, have more respect for your self. Their is someone out their who just wants you. Love yourself more, so don't sell yourself short. It is going to be alright.
2006-08-30 15:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys when they want to cheat have the decency to do it behind your back but he did it in front of your face, in fact the bold face son of a bit-ct asked for your help to help himself to your friend. say good rid-dens to bad rubbish and move on up.
2006-08-30 15:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was ready to break the relationship off with you. It is time for you to reflect on how you felt and was treated in this relationship.
2006-08-30 15:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by tbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt a girl did the same thing to me the ppl who say that never come back
2006-08-30 15:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by broadway_boy7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he was leaving you when he asked for her e-mail
2006-08-30 15:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a jerk. forget him. firget relationships and love they all suck.
2006-08-30 15:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋