Well my gf gave me a choice to pick between her and being friends with my ex last night. This morning I was going to tell her that I pick her but she cut me off and told me it was done and shes gone. Why did she do that? Should I even try to talk to her? Should I leave her alone? What should I do?
2006-08-30 08:17:37 · 10 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you had to sleep on it obviously it was a difficult decision. She probably didn't want to be second. It is what it is. Move on.
2006-08-30 08:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your next won't accept your ex. Remember that and honestly she shouldn't have to. The truth is you never got over your ex that is why your decision was so hard to make. She didn't make the decision for u...u made it when you hesitated. The truth is that you should be alone so you can learn yourself and heal yourself to allow emotional room for someone else. Your gf hasn't dumped you unfortunately this is a ploy to observe your reactions.
I would call her and tell her she has made the right decision and distance yourself from both of them.
Get you right then everything else will go right
Good Luck
Phantom
2006-08-30 15:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by phantom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello slaphappy,
I would consider yourself lucky. You are being manipulated by both girl friends. You weren't placed on this planet to ease everyone's egos. The only one that you need to keep happy is yourself. Screw both of them.
How old are you and these girls anyway? You are all obviously too young to be having a girl friend anyway. These antics are so Grammar School. There's got to be some talk going around on the playground about those two girls.
I'd dump both of them and concentrate on getting a more mature girlfriend. Good luck.
--Rick
2006-08-30 15:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just feels that you would choose your ex over her. If you want her back call her and tell you are sorry you made her feel less loved than you wanted to. And cut down on the contact with the ex until you are sure she is feeling more secure.
2006-08-30 15:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she already made the choice before she gave you the ultimatum. You could call her in a few days, hopefully the two of you can work it out. If not then go on to better things.
2006-08-30 15:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on buddy...she sounds too moody for you and as long as you have no feelings for your ex and you are only friends-no girl should ever make you choose in the first place.
2006-08-30 15:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on shes a *****.. shes way too selfish she shouldnt even bother to care. Its really mean of her to make you decide between her and being your ex's friend.
2006-08-30 15:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man i am still friends with a couple exes. no one should make you choose. leave the girl
2006-08-30 15:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude don't worry about it. if shes gonna be that controlling and possessive you probably couldn't be happy with her anyway.
2006-08-30 15:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by fireone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you took to long to make it call her and let her know how you feel and that it was her you want
2006-08-30 15:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋