ok im talking to this guy and he seems to be avoiding me seeing him in person he calls me all the time we talk for long periods of time and he imes me every time i get online i know he likes me but for some reason he keeps avoding seeing me in person ive seen him pictures on myspace so i know wat he looks like cause ive known him for a while i met him in person 2 years ago and found him again on myspace but in 2 years a person can really change so why do u think he is a avoiding me seeing him and how can i see him cause i dont want to be talking to him if he doesent look the same or how i picture him i know that sounds shallow but i like good looking guys so wat do u think about this why wont he let me see him pls help
2006-08-30 08:10:58 · 46 answers · asked by lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if the picture is you, you are indeed a sexy woman which I would really like for myself.so I think he is a scumbag dont waste to much time on people who ignore you.you are to beautiful for stress
2006-08-30 08:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by black hood 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Look, you sound like you're still young by the way you type. In that case, you need to let it go and find someone you didn't meet online. This guy wouldn't be avoiding you in person if he wasn't hiding something. Try to move on to better things. Every girl needs to learn when to stop wasting her time on a stupid guy. This is that time for you.
2006-08-30 08:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend or wife - thats why he can't hook up with you face to face.
or
He looks nothing like the pictures he has posted - so you will not like him if you see him face to face.
Or
He is a child molester and is attempting to resist the tempation of a face to face meeting, since he will likely end up in jail for the rest of his life......
Or he is scared that you are an undercover cop.
all sorts of reasons... Why are you wasting your time on a guy you have never seen?
Seems silly
2006-08-30 08:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Night Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't help you. If he is avoiding you the reason is his alone. That being the case, why are you pursuing? And if being "good looking " is your only criteria in boys then you should take a good look at yourself (from within) and try and find some real values.
2006-08-30 08:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be married or other commited relationship. Or since you're rather open about the whole shallow thing, he probably knows it and doesn't look like he used to anymore.
2006-08-30 08:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by ravenofchrist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be several factors of why he doesnt want to meet up. For example this guy didnt want to hang with me cause he said I made him "nervous". This guy could have let himself go like u suggested and is nervous( and judging by ur attitude, maybe u said something that intimidated him), or maybe he is shy being around a pretty girl, maybe he has a girlfriend, or someone special and he doesnt want to jeoperdize that so he avoids being in public with u.....................................
If he doesnt want to meet up, dont worry about it, his lost, obviously he is a scaredy cat, and who wants that! Move on
2006-08-30 08:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about it. Not worth it. You have done your own thing for 2 years, why bother now. He is probably seeing someone else. Do the same yourself.
2006-08-30 08:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was worth your time you would be out with him instead of asking questions. Stop fretting and move on. I'm sure there are tons of guys out there who would love to meet you in person.
2006-08-30 08:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by walkingdisastr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint girl, he doesn't want to be seen with you for whatever reason. Move on there is something is not telling you.
2006-08-30 08:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got someone else in his life now.. You can probably do better than that so go out and meet someone who will treat you with all the respect and attn. you deserve!!!
2006-08-30 08:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋