What do I do about my 26 yr old immature lying thief of a sister?

Question

She took out a payday loan in my name,steals my mail and my money, and mooches off of me.She is not only stealing from me but from my 1 year old son when she does these things.When you catch her,she always has some story that makes her the victim.She loses jobs and places to live constantly,but thinks she is better than everybody.We all live together with my parents.I am saving for a down payment on a house so I cant move yet.She also threatens to call social services and make up lies about the way I treat my son if I call her on anything she has been doing (stealing,etc.)I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like I am the older one. I told her if she continues to do these things that I would not only cut her from my life,but from my sons life.But then she told me how immature that was and that I was a piece of sh*t.I am really at my wits end here.I want to love her but I dont even like her at this point.Any advice would be really great.And please, no sarcastic or vulgar responses

In response to bottleblondemama, I am not mooching off of my parents. I pay rent and utilities, and for everything else my son and I need. I am saving every penny that I can for a down payment, so how doesnt that "hold water"? I will do whatever I have to do to make sure my son has a stable home to grow up in. If that means living with my parents for a couple years to save money instead of spending much more money on an apartment only to have nothing to show for it in the end except less savings then so be it. I do not know one person my age not living with their parents, even those with children of their own. Maybe it's just the area where I live, but I think I am doing pretty good.

Answer 1

You both are too old to be living with your parents and it is only keeping you both in immature, childish modes.

You need to move out of your parents house and start getting on with your own. Your excuse about saving money for a downpayment for a house doesn't hold water...you are mooching off of your parents the same way your sister is mooching off of you; you are a grown woman with a child and it is time for you to move on with your life and start acting like one. If you are not already getting child support for the child, you should pursue that and it could help you save for a house.

Warn her the next time she takes out a payday loan in your name you will file fraud charges or if she comes to your house and steals anything you will call the police and she will end up in jail. She needs to start being held accountable for her behaviour, but you also need to start being responsible for yourself and your future.

Answer 2

i have asister that is just like that i and she was on drugs and still is idont talk to she is 31 kown and st at 22

Answer 3

Sounds like she might be on drugs. Has anyone talked to her to find out?