I'm 5'4 weight 120 lbs. wear a size 4 jeans and small size dress. 40 yrs old + and work out 3 times or more a week. my girlfriends are jealous and he said I don't look good. Him on the other hand I never complain... but he's over weight. I'm not complaining about him, but why does he have to says such thing to make me feel bad. Why isn't he happy with what he's got ?
2006-08-30 08:00:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him. He's a loser. He keeps you down to make himself feel good. Misery loves company. Do yourself a favor and find you a good man who loves fitness as much as you do, and will give you the love and praise you deserve, because you're worth it!
2006-08-30 08:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesnt feel all that great about himself.(misery loves company) He is probably jealous u look younger, feel younger,and get compliments. Does he get compliments? A lot of guys try to bring down a womans self esteem so she can start thinking shes inadequate so she wont leave him, and women start thinking they cant find anyone else.............................
Babe, a man is suppose to add on to ur happiness, be the clyde to ur bonnie, make u feel GOOD! Since he's so unhappy with u, tell him to take a hike, u can and will find better, u dont need his NEGATIVE comments!
2006-08-30 15:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are in nice shape. Maybe this guy is blocking out his own insecurities by pointing on things on you. Instead of feeling bad about hiself, he's making you feel badly
2006-08-30 15:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser and get yourself a real man. One that appreciates you. What does he want you to be anorexia. What a jerk! This is called male chauvinist pig!
2006-08-30 15:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? It sounds like he doesn't know when he has a good thing!
2006-08-30 15:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants someone younger. It probably wouldn't matter what you looked like....
2006-08-30 15:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's not so hot himself - and oh yeah, don't feel bad about yourself, cos you sound pretty fine ;-)
2006-08-30 15:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by world_peas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because he's not happy with himself and why do you take that from him you need to let him know and please don't lose any weight your already skinny enough
2006-08-30 15:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a rear end
2006-08-30 15:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by gouldgirl2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...you have a b/f that doesn't like how you look. ask yourself, you are you with him!!!!
2006-08-30 15:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋