I'm a 20 year old with a 36 yr. old. I lived two hours away from him. We met through a friend. When we met he told me he owned his own business and had people working under him. I moved down to his place about 2 months ago, we have only been together about 5 months. I find out that he hardly is working and he is doing side jobs. (Hardly his own business). He has been divorced twice and has 2 children. The youngest is 9 months now. Him and his 2nd ex. got divorced and slept together, he told me this hadn't happend in 4 months since before we met, come to find out it was a month and a half. The day i move down here i find out he gave me gonnorhea, I hadn't been with anyone else. Two days after I am down here he gets evicted from his apartment, and he knew in may he would be getting kicked out his landlord says. he denies it. A couple of days ago I gave a guy my number and felt bad, so i told him right away. he told his friends. i admit I have been a moody ***** lately. U blame me?
2006-08-30 07:56:32 · 28 answers · asked by angel1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see...
Strike 1 - Lied about the nature of his business.
Strike 2 - Divorced not once, but twice.
Strike 3 - Lied about the time frame regarding sex with the Ex.
You should be leaving by now but let's move on.
Strike 4 - Gave you gonorrhea. Good lord!
Strike 5 - Can't handle the rent and is being evicted.
You should definitely move on. There's just no other way to look at this IMHO. And no, I don't blame you for being moody. I blame you for moving in with a person that you don't even really know. Next time you might try having your own place, car, job, etc. and dating a person with their own place, car, job, etc. for a year or more before moving in with them. Good luck.
2006-08-30 08:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dan W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r not to blame this guy is a total deadbeat and you got hooked by his charm, run now or forever be at the bottom of the pit. He needs some serious help with a lot of things, sounds to me as if his priorities are all screwed up. Don't feel bad about giving out you number deep down inside you realized the mistake you had made and your subconscious was trying to tell you, so move one now before you end up with some other disease that you won't be able to take medicine for.
2006-08-30 15:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Candice R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding me, right? If not, get the hell away from him now. I mean, after the gonorrhea, let alone the rest of the crap, why are you even still around? Go. Go now. Just grab your toothbrush and go. If you need a ride, give me a call. Just go.
2006-08-30 15:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this is all your fault? What the hell are you doing staying with him. You really have some growing up to do if you think that this is what life is all about. He is a loser!!!!! Are you too thick skulled to see it? Leave now, or get used to having other STDs.
2006-08-30 15:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no I don't blame you. This guy sounds like a real loser. Didn't your friend warned you about him? If not some friend she/he is. I would get as far away from this guy as fast as possible. You definitely deserve better!
2006-08-30 15:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, run far away as fast as you can. This guy is a bum and you would be a fool to continue with him. I can't believe you are still with the man after all that he has put you through.
2006-08-30 15:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Al J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to leave him alone. He is a liar and a cheat. What else does he have to give you for you to open your eyes. You deserve better. You are too young to be dealing with this type of bull ****.
2006-08-30 15:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out. This guy is a total loser- and if you're thinking having a kid with him is a good idea, then you're a worse loser.
Get out- he needs to grow up, quit drinking and using drugs, and you need to get on with your life to be more successfull. Good Luck
2006-08-30 14:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay with a guy who can't even support himself let alone anyone else. To make matters worse he lies to you. You can do better. GO before you get attached to him even more.
2006-08-30 15:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liar, liar pants on fire! He gave you what? Sorry, you need to kick this dog to the curb!
2006-08-30 15:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋