my fiance is very destraut, as am I, about all of this, and her boss yelled at her in front of around 50 (fifty) people, which in her state, made her cry. He then snapped get in the back, while in the break room (back room), came back and started talking to her. She didnt want to discuss personal business in front of people, so they went back to office. They then went back and forth about the discussion at the register in front of customers. He then sent her home saying, if i don't hear from you in 2 (two) weeks, youre off the schedule, meaning no longer employed.
2006-08-30 07:56:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take the two weeks off and find another job. He is rude and abusive and you shouldn't have to deal with that at a time like this. My Sympathy to you and your family. Good Luck!
2006-08-30 08:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by ChicaLoca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truely sorry for your lose. I lost my mother almost 10 years ago. It was the most horrible experience in my life. I still struggle. I was with her the moment she left. I carred for her body afterwords. She was young she was only 41 and still had my babysisters at home. We then 4 months later lost my grandfather (which was the only father figure we knew growing up) It was the worse year in my life. I struggle to understand why. My husband wrote a poem I wish to share with you. He wrote it about his best friend who died in the service.
To The Ones We Lost
We honor and adore you even though you are gone,
we fight to survive and survive to stay strong.
You travel our thoughts and bless our dreams,
close enough to touch but do far still you seem.
Illusions of granger and thoughts of despair,
we drop to our knees and through our hands in the air.
Screaming "Why can't I be with you, why can't I be there?",
the who, the why, the what, when, and were.
The questions we ask our self that shows we still care.
After time we learn to accept their is nothing we can do,
so we turn to the memories and pictures of you.
The jokes, the people, the games and the love,
and knowing you are watching on high from above.
We'll go on loving and fighting without cost,
and never forgetting...........
..............the ones that we lost.................
Eric Gleason
I think we all search for a meaning and a healing if a person dies before what we think of as there time. We try to finding meaning a reason why and an understanding. There is not always an answer. We have to believe that there is a reason for everything. Even if we do not like the idea. If you ever need to talk IM me.
Blessed Be
)0(
2006-08-30 15:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by mysticalmoon1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her boss sounds very insensitive, especially if this is unusual behavior for your fiancee at work. Perhaps he was frustrated that something was clearly wrong, yet she did not explain. She should contact her boss and explain why she acted as she did, but keep in mind that your mother was not her blood relative so the level of understanding on the boss's part may be limited. But at least she should clear the air. If the boss viewed her behavior as insubordinate that is grounds for firing.
2006-08-30 15:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your boss, and tell him, your Mother passed, this is the first thing you should have done, People will understand, but they cannot read your mind, I am sure you needed a break, trying to adjust, but you sure did not need to worry about your job situation, Go back to work, it is okay to tell people, that Mom passed. Mom is at peace, in a better place, so try and get yourself together. Hang in their.
2006-08-30 15:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow hunny i am sorry for your loss explain what happened and maybe they will understand whats going on in ur life the boss should know whats going on in ur life and maybe you should have taken some days off to think about things tell your boss to take it easy
2006-08-30 15:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry about your loss, I lost my mom at 12...but I think that you should take a few days off work and seek emotional help, I had too!
2006-08-30 15:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm so sorry. That boss is abusive. She should tell him why she's sad.
If he can't understand, let her find a new job if possible.
My sympathy to you and your family.
2006-08-30 14:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her go to unemployment. Tell them the story. Then get hold of EEOP in you town. Then get a hold of a Lawyer. I know in happen to my spouse.
2006-08-30 15:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would also file a complaint with HR in your company because if you get a lawyer then they will be looking for complaints on file...
2006-08-30 15:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by A_Soldiers_Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to keep the job she is going to have to do what the guy said.
2006-08-30 14:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋