I am kinda seeing a friend, more like **** buddy but on a profound level, he wants to get into to a relationship, but i dont, and i also dont want him to be with anyone else, i like him, but i dont do relationships, he thinks im playing him,what should i do? dont all guys like this?
2006-08-30 07:54:19 · 17 answers · asked by tammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes but you are telling him that he cant see other girls.
2006-08-30 07:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you don't want a relationship with him, and you also don't want him to be in a relationship with someone else? look, you say he's a F buddy (on a profound level), right? and you also said he wants to be in a relationship, right?
looks like he's fallen for you... so either try out the relationship thing (where you'll still act like F buddies and good friends, but with the titles of BF and GF... you also make sure that he's not going to be in a relationship with someone else.
if you aren't willing to go that far, then cut him loose. let him find someone to have a relationship with that is more than an F buddy. otherwise, you ARE playing him... you are basically asking for all the benefits of a relationship, without the titles.
and while guys do like having a really cool F buddy, when a guy craves more (like a relationship for example) a F buddy just won't do... and we *will* start looking elsewhere to find that relationship.
2006-08-30 15:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by kiss my wookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys like that, I rather be in a relationship at this stage in my life, but a **** buddy would be nice too. The fact that you don't want to be in a relationship and still want to **** him is probably upsetting him. I think the icing on the cake is that you said he can't go out with anyone else....
2006-08-30 15:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you guys are and what the deal is.
Sounds like you're just playing him. As long as both of you know what the situation is in terms of relationship level, or none at all.
You guys really need to communicate this better to avoid confusion and hurt feelings.
2006-08-30 14:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok so you dont want a relationship yet you want your friend to be exclusive to you and you alone.........Well yea it would seem your playing him......cause you tell him you dont want a realtionship in one hand then in the other you tell him that even though we are not together and we dont have a relationship I dont want you to see anyone else............very selfish on you your part
2006-08-30 15:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by scotdic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a **** buddy on a profound level. Does he have permanent **** rights? Stop being a hoe.
2006-08-30 15:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're using him as a sex toy, you're abusing him.
How much money has he spent on dates with you?
You can't have it both ways- you don't want a relationship and yet you don't want him dating other people?
You've got some control issues that need to be worked out- and if you're under 25 years old, or he's under 25, you shouldn't even be b/f and g/f because your psychies haven't matured yet
2006-08-30 14:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u both arent seeing anyone then u r in a relationship dumbass
2006-08-30 15:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do'nt want him to be with anyone else, it's called jealousy, olr possessiveness. Give it up and let him see who he wants or give in and try a relationship.
2006-08-30 14:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by mxzptlk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points!
2006-08-30 15:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like being a tramp. And no, all guys don't like this... guys like sleeping with clean woman. You don't "do" relationships? Grow up
2006-08-30 15:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by Dustin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋