im letting my b/f go to a strip club for the first time with my friends husband who had already been to one. is it normal to be nervous about this? can anything happen? my friends husband says he will make sure nothing happens. girls how did u feel about this with your lover or what do u think about it? i trust him so i know that he wont do anything but im still nervous!!!!!
2006-08-30 07:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would any guy go there if he has a gf or wife? unless he wants something else
2006-08-30 07:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are nervous then you should let him know how you are feeling. Just let him know that you trust him but it makes you nervous still with women all up on your man's ***** and in his lap throwing their breast in his face and their p**** up in his face. Yeah just tell him thats what you are nervous about even though you trust him with all your heart. Besides he is a man its not like he needs permission to go. If he wants to go he is going to go anyway. Hope all works out just fine for the 2 of you.
2006-08-30 14:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Boys like to look. Its that simple. When I was a little girl, the little boys my age said they would pay me a lot to just look at my you know what. We went out behind the garage and I made a lot of money that summer. Men get aroused easily and it makes them feel better about themselves if they can act out on that once in a while. It is anonymous sex for them in a way and they have a great fantasy. I still get a little tingle remembering what happened behind that garage. Well, more than a tingle when I think of the look on their faces. Let him go and come home. Then he will be in the mood for you to do what else made me a lot of money that summer: touching. :)
2006-08-30 14:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the club, you can get laid. If you trust him don't worry about him going there, worry about why he is going there. I have never been to a strip club and I am 26. I had no reason to go when I had a beautiful woman at home.
2006-08-30 14:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is not allowed to go to those things unless i am coming too! of course i have not come up on the topic yet with him as he has never asked me.
but, you said you are letting him. you said you trust him. so relax.....have a glass of wine, or have two. and when your man comes home, have some wild crazy sex. all that built up tension from gritting your teeth til he comes home ought to be used for something fantastic!
2006-08-30 15:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is going to happen.....they only let good looking men sleep with them
2006-08-30 14:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend should go to chip and dales the same night
2006-08-30 15:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask if I could go too
2006-08-30 14:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is normal to be nervous.
2006-08-30 14:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Chase H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋