2006-08-30 07:47:58 · 52 answers · asked by Larry S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
you idiot.
2006-08-30 07:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sally Pepsi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 14:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too young to be dating someone who already has a 2 year old. I'm sure he's over 18 already.... so he could get in trouble with the law for being with a 16 year old!
2006-08-30 07:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is this guy?
You should at least respect the fact that he was honest about his child. I hope he demonstrating good parenting skills also. If so don't sweat the small stuff. If things get more serious then you can decide how to handle it. You are only sixteen this relationship could fizzle out before you need to worry about being a step mom. So relax and enjoy the company. Good luck.
2006-08-30 07:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Hollli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same guy that wanted you to have his child a few months ago? I think you either have a very rich fantasy life or a much too active love life for a 16-year-old.
2006-08-30 07:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guy having a two year old child is not a problem,however at the age of 16 i don't think that a person should take on that kind of reasonablity.If you think the child is a promblem then maybe it is not ment to be.
2006-08-30 07:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy with two kids we are still together and they are all grown up now, but it was hard fitting in and playing Mom. It will not change for you for some years, you will have to take the responsibility of this child too and feel 2nd best during visits etc..
If this is not a serious relationship and you are having anything to do with the child forget it now as their is a child here that can get messed up by your and your BF too.
2006-08-30 07:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His child is not a problem, if your thinking that way then you shouldn't be dating because the child will always be their.. if he going to do the right thing. If he is not a good father, that says a alot about him as a person. Your 16 date and have fun, but don't be babymomma #2.
2006-08-30 08:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Akasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are far too young to be dealing with so much drama. Look there is usually baby mama drama. Concentrate on school, your family and becomign a better individual. ALthough there is nothing wrong with dating someone who already has kids, you have to be old enough and mature to be able to handle that. You are a kid yourself. you will change so much in the next few years, your likes and dislikes will change. SO move on and do the right thing.
2006-08-30 07:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off sweet sixteen. This is not good for you at all, he is having his own family with a 2 year old girl. If you have some physical relationship with him its only him who is gonna enjoy that's it. You will be follwing the miserable days later on, think of your parents and your future. Such a lot of time still left for you.
2006-08-30 07:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by vjkiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he got 2 years old daughter, then he is a much older man. At 16, you are too young to love proper. Keep to your schooling. Love is pain, believe me.
2006-08-30 07:51:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋