He hasn't found anyone to replace you and needs to make sure you still want him. He's just keeping you on the hook. But it hurts you so he is treating you like crap. Cut the big guy off! Tell him it's over and you have no interest in being friends and GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
2006-08-30 07:44:47
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answered by BlueSea 7
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My guess is he wants to keep you on the back burner. I also had this happen and ended up cuttinga ll ties with him, because him calling me all the times was just a reminder that he was there.
My advice is to cut all ties with him and look for something new. I did and am now happily married to someone else. I think not talking to him anymore is how you will move on with your life.
You could ask him to re-commit to you too. If he still has feelings for you, the distance hasn't keep him from contacting you...
I think you need to get all or nothing from this guy to keep yourself happy in the long run.
2006-08-30 07:46:18
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answered by kermit 6
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When did you break up...one or two years ago?
Be kind and talk to him specifically about the situation. You are miles apart. You've got something else on your plate right now....getting an education and being at college. It's eating up your valuable time and your concentration.
Set some boundaries. If he cares, he will respect them. If not, maybe he just keeps you on the line...using you to pump himself up by charming you and getting some response.
Act mature and expect the same from him.
2006-08-30 07:50:05
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to talk to him to see why is he doing this, we can only speculate to what's going on in his mind.
What has he been doing for the past 2 years? Has he beening dating or have a gf? Has he told you that its over and looking for other girlfriend?
It might be that he still have feelings for you and couldn't bare the separation, but then again wouldn't it be more constructive to stay together and work it out?
Dwelling on past relationship can only hurt you more and more, either you pick up the pieces you have left off or leave it entirely; there is no middle ground.
Talk to him, see what he says
2006-08-30 07:48:05
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answered by thsiung 3
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hi he could not handle you going away to college and yet he keeps in contact with you because he really wants to be with you he wants to know whats going on in your life because he is hoping you dont take another lover he is missing what he had can i ask you a question how long you have let in college? do he have another lover ?whats his plans as for as the future some question you maybe can asked him will give you some ideal what he is really seeking from you?
2006-08-30 07:54:38
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answered by annjilena 4
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Maybe you would feel better if you just broke all connections with him. I would block his emails, not answer his calls. That way you can forget bout him and move on with YOUR life. It'll be HARD to do but better for you in the long run.
Hope this helps you.
2006-08-30 07:47:35
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answered by SunnyD 1
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He doesn't want to admit it but he misses you too I think. He just wants to stay in contact with you in case you move back home. If you love him like you say you do I'm sure he can feel it. Just stay in touch with him and see what the future holds. Right now your education is more important.
2006-08-30 07:45:48
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answered by aimstir31 5
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Imma provide help to in on a lil some-somethin. guy are egomaniacal freaks! they do no longer want you anymore, yet they genuinely refuse to entertain the theory possibly you're over them, or which you now no longer think of of them 24fuckin7. they have the want to make rattling specific that they nevertheless have some sort of carry on you. regardless of in the event that they at the instant are not fascinated in any respect, it feeds their egos. God forbid you get attracted to somebody else..... They whine and cry like little toddlers then locate different undemanding strategies to get your interest.
2016-11-06 02:13:09
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answered by saturnio 4
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He probably is looking to use you in some way shape or form. It seems to me that things in his life aren't going as he would like so he is coming back to familiar territory. You should leave him alone and concentrate on something else school, friends and or dating. If you go back, you will most certainly regret it. Hope this was helpful best of luck
2006-08-30 07:48:29
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answered by E 3
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You need to just ask him what it is that he wants. If he broke up with you and told you that there is no future then you should just ignore his phone calls and play the game that he is playing with you. Don't waste your time or energy on him. Obviously he has issues.
2006-08-30 07:48:57
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answered by Melissa 4
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