i am having now a marriage proposal from an old friend ... he is very loyal and will be a perfect husband
i don't agree with him with serious points like my working hours after having kids and the kind of job he would like me to be having after marriage
actually i doubt that he likes controlling my life
what do you think i should be doing?!
2006-08-30 07:37:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 22 he is 25
2006-08-30 07:50:04 · update #1
he is religious me either we are not going to have sex before marriage but we have seeing each other as friends for years
2006-08-30 07:51:55 · update #2
In an instant. These are the best kind. Seriously, how many other honest, respectable and loyal guys are in love with you and want to marry you? Better yet, how many honest, respectable, and loyal guys do you even know or have ever met other than the one in question? What?? NONE you say? Now is there any doubt as to why that may be? Oh yes, I know, it's because there AREN'T any. This type of man is hard to find, if you have one you better hang on to him or someone else will snatch him up right before your eyes. He is a very rare specimen indeed. They arent made anymore you know. Marry him, and FAST.
2006-08-30 07:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by trebobnagrom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you have to ask someone else should you marry him, you're already making a BIG mistake. No one on Yahoo Answers can tell you if you love him and no one here can tell you if it's "meant o be". Sure he's honest, loyal,etc...but there's millions of people like that! you said he would be a perfect husband (but would he be a perfect husband for YOU or for someone else?) Every relationship has its differences....you can't agree on EVERYTHING b/c you're two different people! If you really love him, working hours and jobs should be the least of your concerns. However, some stuff like his morals, values, etc you should no before hand b/c you dont want to marry someone who you can't live with for the REST OF YOUR LIFE! That's something you both have to sit down and come to a mutual agreement about. Do that first...you might find that his values and ethics aren't the same as yours!
2006-08-30 14:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't mention any ages, or how "old" of a friend he is. Marraige is a bond between two people, not a business partnership. Have the two of you been dating? Do you want to get married just so you are married? Maybe you should look over the reasons why he asked you to marry him. But the two of you should work out any differences before geting married, and who knows your soul mate may show up in the near future.
2006-08-30 14:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by ashkicker911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the one that you really want that way you might be more happy. Does sound like you really really want this guy. I was always told to marry the fool that loves you and not the fool that you love. I wish I had listen.
2006-08-30 14:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-08-30 14:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down and square this away. You don't want to ruin a great friendship
2006-08-30 14:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i waz over than 25 then i wud say yes!
2006-08-30 14:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by selda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him you aren't doing him or you either one a favor.
2006-08-30 14:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd let this guy have sex with you? Other than that, I think it's OK.
2006-08-30 14:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you feel the same way they do. No if you dont.
2006-08-30 14:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by pam b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋