Everytime his bed is a foot off the frame... or he won't pick up the phone at 10 pm... or when he knock off the soup cans at the market with the carts at the market when he has his eyes on a beautiful lady... I get upset and confront him. He yells and scream and get extreamly defensive. It's almost like I accuse him of murder or something. Is it my false to ask him why he treats me in such a way or is he just trying to cover up? He calls me overly jealous... he said I have an issue, do I? I'm not a kid, nor a teenager... we're past 40 and still have to deal with this problem. Am I just old school and I need to catch up with the society or is there something wrong with him? I'm afraid to even say anything to him anymore.
2006-08-30 07:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guilty
2006-08-30 07:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky Lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this has become a serious problem, then you should considering going to a marriage counselor or maybe telling him that this is unacceptable.
Under no circumstances your husband should yell or scream at you for any reason, that's just not the right thing to do. If he value your marriage he should at least work it out with you or talk to you reasonably.
You should tell him that yelling and scream is not acceptable behavior doesn't matter what you talk about, and he needs to change that.
It does seem like this is high suspicion that he's cheating. With his behavior like this and no way to talk to him, it might be a good time to live in your mother's House for some time
2006-08-30 14:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man is screaming and yelling, he's acting out of fear of being caught. Any sensible guy would just answer what you ask. Not fly of the handle! You may want to think about where your relationship is going. Do you feel it is healthy relationship to be verbally abused in such a manner? There are a lot of good men your age out there. Perhaps its time to shop.
2006-08-30 14:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve someone better. Someone who accepts and loves you, and doesnt go off looking at others. I know they say its okay to look, but not touch. But in my opinion, looking leads to touching. If he is so defensive about things that "never happened?" then why is he being so defensive? I think you are not overly jealous. I think you have caught him, and he feels guilty, and is trying to turn it around on you. I know the type. I was with someone just like that, and I got out of it. He is not worth your time or energy. You are a better, stronger person, and deserve someone worthy of you. Get rid of him. You will find someone a whole lot better than a liar. Good luck sweetie, and stay strong!!
2006-08-30 14:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Camille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not wanting to admit to what he's doing. Some guys get really defensive when you find them out, and they try to cover it up and make you believe otherwise.
2006-08-30 14:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is guilty of looking as of cheating wouldnt be able to tell with that limited info
2006-08-30 14:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing a cover up. He got caught doing something he shouldn't.
2006-08-30 14:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he yells at you about things like that then I would say that you should just leave him. Chances are he is cheating on you, so just leave him and forget about it...I'm sure he will
2006-08-30 14:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by neener892004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guilty people often overreact. if the bed is off the frame...and he hasn't been answering your calls at night.
drop him.
2006-08-30 14:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by lucky c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he' s maybe going through a mid-life crisis
2006-08-30 14:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by twiinsgirl316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋