2006-08-30 07:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by pretty_mama88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I do not think you should just because of you family especialy if you really love him.
2006-08-30 07:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nat-rabit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love so much that you can't live without him? Maybe your family believes there is not enough love there because you have been with him for 4 years. I would never let family come in between me and the person i love. If you have to get answers from someone else you must believe there is not enough love in this relationship. You need to do alot of soul searching and see if you think this relationship is worthy.
2006-08-30 07:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by pam b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if your family has all the right reason for you to do so, sometimes family have a bias eyes for spoting something wrong before you do.
However, it might be they just don't get along with your bf; either way you need to find out to see if the reasons are right.
If they give you the right reason, then you should consider it and talk with your bf to see if they can be resolve. Maybe its just little things and can be easily corrected.
On the other hand, if they give you bogus reason or no reason at all (unreasonable excuse); then forget about them.
2006-08-30 07:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Is he disrespectful to your family? What has he done for them not to like him?
I am SURE your family just wants you to be happy.
You prob. don't want to hear this, but family will always be there for you, ALWAYS....boyfriends come and go.
And something else to think about: If he TRULY loves you, he would want you to get along with your family, he would do everything he could to also get them to accept him, right? He would NOT say to forget your family.
2006-08-30 07:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why arn't you married by now?
If you've been together this long- 4 years-obviously you have a very strong relationship.
You want your family to get real about your life? Elope
2006-08-30 07:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Martini, i'm sorry on your broken coronary heart! Congratulations on being sober and keep going solid, do no longer supply your self to a pitcher, you're greater nicely worth it than a drink!!! at the beginning, you may desire to diminish than no circumstances sense that it is your fault for the wreck-up because of the phobia of eating. a real guy could desire to have respected your determination for no longer eating, and could desire to have given a a hundred% in the direction of your help. regrettably you may fall out of love, yet once you reside for 4 years with a man or woman you nonetheless have some form of look after that man or woman. you're an ingredient of each and every-others existence and that's a actuality. With that pronounced, according to what you assert which you broke up earlier two times and that's third time i think of you may desire to no longer supply him yet another hazard. you have given the dating a 2nd hazard and look have been you're. "previous behavioral historic previous very as a rule determines the destiny behavioral" - from Dr. Phil I strongly propose you seek for greater help to make your self sense greater efficient. you may desire to sense very proud for being sober, heavily!!! come across a team assembly(AA) close to you. you additionally can meet mind-blowing, mind-blowing adult males who're sober yet had eating subject concerns. I dated a guy who went to the assembly a week, 10 years sober yet nonetheless went (to assist others too). you will very at as quickly as recover from you egocentric, thoughtless boyfriend and could meet somebody mind-blowing who will comprehend what you're dealing with and maybe you may walk that bridge at the same time, greater beneficial. Please evaluate it! do no longer take to coronary heart the opinion of people who say he gets over it. Why do you may desire to be purely a door have been he can walk out and in on each and every occasion he looks like. you're a man or woman and could be taken care of and respected like one! Take solid care of your self,
2016-12-11 17:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really need more info for this question. There must be reasons your family wants you to break up with him.
2006-08-30 07:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some questions to ask yourself....Do you love him? Does he love you? Do you see a future with him? Why does your family not like him? Can that change? Does he treat you with respect? Do you want to end the relationship? things like that......just do what your feel.....
2006-08-30 07:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by neener892004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never, if you love him then you should set your own furure ahead of you not your family, and if they don't like it they will soon come around and get over it
2006-08-30 07:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont ever let anyone tell you what to do as far as your relationship is concerned. be responsible enough for your own actions
2006-08-30 07:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋