theres this really weird guy who keeps like hugging me and grabbing me and spanking me and stuff, i hate him, hes like 43 and im 19,hes a teacher at my college and idk what to do, hes asked me to go round his house to "talk" but idk....
2006-08-30 07:13:02 · 11 answers · asked by *Katie Sanderson* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay away. sounds too freaky. if he makes you uncomfortable, you should keep your distance.
good luck avoiding the unwanted advances!
2006-08-30 08:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KATIE, YOU NEED TO REPORT HIM TO THE UNIVERSITY BECAUSE YOU SHOULDN'T BE MADE TO FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO. LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU DON'T APPRECIATE HIM INVADING YOUR SPACE BY TOUCHING YOU AND GRABBING YOU. YOU HAVE RIGHTS AS A WOMAN, AS A PERSON, AND AS AN INDIVIDUAL. YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO CHANGE WHO YOU ARE OR WHERE YOU GO OR WHAT YOU DO FOR THIS GUY WHEN HE IS IN THE WRONG. YOU PROBABLY HAVE A SOFT HEART FOR NOT WANTING TO GET HIM FIRED BUT EVENTUALLY HE WILL START STARKING YOU AND IT ONLY WORSENS FROM THERE. YOU NEED TO TAKE ACTION NOW NO MATTER WHAT.
2006-08-30 14:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report him IMMEDIATELY to the dean's office or the human relations department. What he is doing is clear-cut SEXUAL HARASSMENT (and possibly assault) and it is not tolerated in this day and age.
Alternately (till you can get a report filed), the next time he lays a finger on you scream at the top of your lungs! That will get his attention. He's a lecherous old fart and he needs to learn what proper conduct is. .... NOW.
2006-08-30 14:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report the harrassment to the Dean.
2006-08-30 14:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone in higher authority than him. That is inappropriate for school or elsewhere. He is older and is supposed to be wiser. A teacher is someone you are supposed to look up to for answers and advice. He is someone to run away from. But definitely, TELL SOMEONE!!!!!
2006-08-30 14:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyChica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is so gross and unappropriate. You need him to tell him to stop touching you...i hope you are not taking any classes with him. You need to stay away from him. Tell him if he lays his hands on you one more time you're going to cut off his hands and his freaking D$%K off.
2006-08-30 14:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by SuperChic3955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him!
2006-08-30 14:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
report him, that's sexual harrassment and probably against your schools policies.
2006-08-30 14:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
report his azz
2006-08-30 14:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I call BULL$HIT
2006-08-30 14:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋