Some people are so arrogant that their head is stuck so far up their *** it would come back around again! No matter what you do for some people the good things always go unnoticed while ONE minor negative thing gets magnified x 100000 to make you feel so small!
I just broke down crying, yes emo I know but I am so fed up of benig treated like a piece of dirt. Do this, do that, write this, post that. NOT ONE THANK YOU, only a half assed 'thanks' now and again.
If I was gone tomorrow they wouldn't notice. Oh, yes they would, when they want someone to clean up their mess or someone to make feel like crap.
this in not a question, i know, just drop your commen...
2006-08-30 07:08:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry you are having a bad day, don't know what else to say.
2006-08-30 07:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We might blame others, as much as we want, for treating us badly, but the truth remains, People only treat us the way we treat ourselves.
So watch out your behaviour patterns with yourself, do you respect yourself, or carry yourself with the same dignity and honour that you demand and expect from others? Do you see yourself worthy of unconditional respect, because if you did, you won’t allow it to happen, even once, would you?
Ultimately we also teach others how to treat us, no one can treat us badly without our permission, can they? People simply reflect back to us the energy we send out into the universe, so watch out what signals are you sending out, each day!
Check out- Do you stand up and express your hurt or indignation often, when you get treated badly or like a doormat?
Or do you simply keep mum in order to stay secure and comfortable?
To stand up for ourselves is the greatest challenge anyone would ever face in life, so do whatever you can to break this cycle of disrespect you find yourself trapped into.
It is matter of your honour, dignity and self respect, and you deserve better, don’t you think?
All the best.
2006-08-30 07:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your job is getting to you...or home or school...
I've been there...what are you? the Admin Assistant, the receptionist...whatever, were all peons in the end...
Chill out..walk away. take a stress day off, go do ANYTHING you want to do, for a couple of hours....
Also, in the future, in a way that only you will come to figure out, set some boundaries for how people can treat you...it's only RIGHT
2006-08-30 07:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a stand and say no. Allowing this to happen is just going to make the situation worse.
I hope you have a better day tomorrow.
2006-08-30 07:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by psychstudent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel like people are taking advantage of you it may be because you're actually allowing them to. it's ok to say no every now and then and don't feel obligated to give an excuse.
2006-08-30 07:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by ana g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry your not having a good feeling of life right now....hope it gets better. I care if that matters!
2006-08-30 07:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no to everyone..........you sound just like me. you come first not them. all you have to do is say what is on your mind, they will back off believe me. and if your afraid someone will be mad at you, WHO CARES......
2006-08-30 07:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been married long?
2006-08-30 07:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant live with them & u cant shoot them, wots a girl to do?
2006-08-30 07:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋