I met this girl, at a house party among mutal friends, we went out on a date and had an amazing time. The second date we had great sex. Even though we had sex on our second date does that say anything about her morals or can she just be really into me and turn out to be faithful? She wants to see me all the time since the sex.
2006-08-30 06:48:51 · 32 answers · asked by play73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that was way too quick
2006-09-01 03:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I feel that usually it doesn't matter how soon you have sex with someone. Some guys feel that a girl is a slut if she has sex on the first or second date. Not necessarily true. She could be just very comfortable with her body and her sexuality. Of COURSE she can be faithful!!! You can't always judge a girl by the way she acts sexually. Just because YOU had sex with HER on the second date, does that mean that you have bad morals and will cheat on her? If you both have a great time together and you like her, I'd say hang on to her.
2006-08-30 06:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people will tell u that the girl has no morals, but it doesn't mean she is doing that with every guy otherwsie why would she still pursue you even after the sex? If she wasn't sincere, she probably would have left it at a one night stand status.
I screwed my last boyfriend on the first date and it was awesome. It felt right. Now we have been married for 3 years!
Time will tell weather or not she can/would be faithful.
Ask her what her intentions are. Maybe she just thinks you are a great lay, and is looking for a friend with benefits.
2006-08-30 06:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind you had sex on the 2nd date as well. She didn't do it by herself so what does that say about your morals. Should she be asking the same question about you? The whole yeah but I am a guy thing is old. Retire it already. Morals should be the same for girls and guys.
Having said that would I give in to the pressure of having sex on a 2nd date. NO. I respect myself to much for that. Sex is something I take pretty seriously.
2006-08-30 06:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't seem to be able
to communicate anymore, (if
they EVER could!)
Look at this, for instance; instead
of asking HER, you are asking
total strangers!
Just sit down with her - NO TV!
Look her in the eyes and say,
"I want to ask you a question, and
I want you to be totally honest
with me..."
When you have her attention, just
tell her what you have been
wondering.
You will be surprised how good
it feels to actually communicate
with one another. You will also
be able to talk about other
subjects, and even ask her
to marry you if it comes to
that!
You will both enjoy each other's
company a lot more, and may
find out how great life can be if
you turn off the TV or the LOUD
music and have a REAL life.
2006-08-30 07:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - it doesn't mean she's easy - it sounds to me like ya'll really hit it off & the chemistry is there, so why not go for it & see if physically ya'll are as good as you are in conversation? Some people wait to have sex for a certain period - others you just jump right in & go for it! If it was only sex, then it'll burn itself out. If it leads to a deeper & more meaningful relationship, you are in for a fine time! Date her, enjoy her company (not just sexually, either) & see where it takes you. One guy, I waited 10 months before we became lovers. This new man I'm enjoying - well, let's just say it sure wasn't 10 months!!! lol That doesn't say anything at all about my morals, either! Chill & date - just enjoy!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-08-30 06:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex on the SECOND DATE? yes it says something about her AND YOU! Neither of you have any morals or regard for each other. I would say that even if she is really "into you" it doesn't appear that she would be faithful to you or anyone else. Will you be faithful to her? I just hope for both your sakes that you are aware how easy it is to get sexually transmitted diseases (not to mention how easy it is to get anunwanted pregnancy)and that you use proper protection. She wants to see you all the time since the sex makes me wonder what she wants and who she is doing it with when you are not together!
2006-08-30 07:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by misterbig356 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having sex on the second date...never mind her morals, what about yours? Not sure I get it, will you be faithful to her?
Good luck and I think you should see her. Sounds like you tow have a lot in common.
2006-08-30 06:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Patty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. Any woman who has sex on the 2nd date does not have very high respect for herself and/or morals. Probably both. Sex is an intimate experience between two people who have developed a very sound relationship of months/years. And in my feelings marriage. Yeah... you've got a clinger that associates sex with self-worth and belonging to someone. Sad.
2006-08-30 06:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're living in days where sex is acceptable on second dates. I mean, you were there too, right? Would you be able to be faithful? You must have been raised to think it's okay for guys, but not okay for girls. Now you're wondering, "Wow she slept with me so fast, I wonder how many guys she's been with..." etc.
I think it sounds like this girl really likes you. If you like her a lot too. I think you ought to just get to know her and see what all her values are like. Yes, this girl can be faithful. I know women like this. They have "soft hearts." They fall in love easily and then give everything they have to just that one guy. (I don't think they should give it so easily since they don't really know the guy, but that's my upbringing.) But if it's going to bother you, then move on and do a girl a favor, don't have sex with her the second night.
2006-08-30 07:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably with you just for the sex. Why? I'm not sure. I had sex with a guy on a second date b/c i was on rebound from a break up and was just, weak, I guess. But I stopped seeing the guy after the 3rd date b/c I realized I was using him. (Plus, his dingy was way too small) :-D
2006-08-30 06:51:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋