I am 25 yrs old white female. When I am interested in a black man, i get turned down and the reasons they give me is cause I"m white. What is the big deal? Do black guys not find white girls attractive? Or is it an embarassment to family?? Or are these particular people just racists?
2006-08-30 06:45:25 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsey H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you can or should generalize about the population at large just based on your experience. There are so many unknowns in the information you have provided. These particular men weren't interested in dating you. It happens. They told you it is because you are white. That could be because that is one thing you can't change. They can be pretty sure you won't be back with a new hairstyle, makeup or clothes to ask them again. Move on, find other guys based on common interests and attraction and guys will be into you regardless of race.
2006-08-30 06:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bright Light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you keep running into the wrong black guys. i'm sure there are PLENTY of black dudes that would give u a chance. i personal believe that some black dude are racists because of the past. even though that was a while ago, it still stays in there mind alot, and that's just the way it is. you can't change it and i can't either. all we can do is just live with it and move on to the one.
2006-08-30 13:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around there are inter-racial couples everywhere. Some black men find white women attractive and some do not. Has nothing to do with racism.
2006-08-30 13:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by flopper72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not met the right black man yet...the ones around here would jump at a white girl for a relationship
2006-08-30 13:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just... not into white women. Don't delve into the details too much. There's some black men who like white women, I know a few myself.
2006-08-30 13:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just haven't met the right black man yet. I am sure all people that are looking for that perfect someone, haven't found them yet either.
2006-08-30 13:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its the ones you've approached, there are tons of couples out there made up of white women and black men, so dont take it personallly
2006-08-30 13:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY JUST DATE YOUR OWN RACE YOU WILL BE BETTER OFF. BLACK GUYS DO FIND WHITE WOMEN ATTRACTIVE, I SEE IT ALOT HERE. I ALSO SEE THEM CHEATING ON THEIR WHITE GIRLFRIENDS AND IMPREGNATING THEM AND DENYING THEIR CHILDREN AND WONT SUPPORT THEM. IVE ALSO SEEN THEM ABUSE THEIR WOMEN REAL BAD. SO DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND DATE WHITE MEN ONLY. YOU WILL SPARE YOURSELF THE HEARTACHE LATER.
2006-08-30 13:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe your booty isnt big enough. or maybe they think your not being serious.
2006-08-30 13:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by HatesMondays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋