about a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend we have been together on and off before but anyway we just became friends but now i realized i made a mistake and i want him back he still loves me and he would take me back but he has a new girl and they are close but he said he would dump her because he says i'm his first real love i think hes mine to but what about his new girl and should he take me back should i have been a better girlfriend?
2006-08-30 06:40:35 · 17 answers · asked by domonique716 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.... since he loves you mroe than his present gf.. then it is only right of him to tell his present gf that he loves you more..and she will do the breaking up part for him... then he can be ur bf.. and you two can be happy...since you broke up once.. its hows that your relationship was not very strong.. so it can be that ur bf ws not very gud.. or mayb u were not gud.. did you love him enuf.. upto wat extent were you willing to sacrifice yourself for her...did you share enufi intimate moments together??.. well these are ques to be answered.. btu at the same time... he is ready to dump his present gf for you.. so that means... he can dump you too neday for sum1 else whom he loves more.. so make your decision wisely.. you kno best about hte situation than me or ne1 else... so think about it and decide... ciao... hunk
2006-08-30 06:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by fearless_hunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's telling you that you're his first and only true love than he and this new girl of his aren't as close as he says they are. I think that if you TRUELY feel that this guy is someone really special.. not even spend the rest of your life with right now special.. but someone who really means a lot to you and you think he could be the one someday.. than I would tell him that. Don't let it slip away if you feel somethingt is still there. He has flat out told you how he feels.. of you wait too long he might just realize that he should move on and he and this new girl may develop something more than what he feels for you right now. Love is all about chances.. it's never guaranteed. Maybe you should have been a better girlfriend, but he's still there wanting to be with you, so if you want that too than you need to say something to him and make it happen. good luck, mistakes can be fixed.
2006-08-30 06:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself that every single day. If you had a good reason to break up with him then maybe that is how you should leave it. If he's found someone that will treat him better then you need to let him move on. If the reason for your break up hasn't been resolved, how can you be sure it will work this time? I gave up the love of my life. At the time he just couldn't get his sh_t together and I was so tired of waiting. We'd been together 7 years, had a kid and still he had me hanging. I found out later that there was someone else in the mix. But now he's done with school, he's got a great career, he's a responsible father to our son and he's just great. He's ready to settle down but unfortunately it's with someone else. It sucks but maybe it wasn't meant to be. If you guys love each other, I say go for it. But don't keep repeating the same patterns or it'll just end badly.
2006-08-30 06:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that you broke up with him must have been for a reason. Think honestly about why you did this. I don't think you should go back especially as he is now with someone new. He may be saying that now but he may start feeling something for her too. How would you feel if you did get back together and then he decided he really wanted her instead?
2006-08-30 06:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by edinburgh22001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both still love each other, then the new girl is really just the rebound girl. its not really fair to her to be in a relationship with him when he would dump her any minute for you. You should get him back and if you think you should have been a better girlfriend maybe you shuld start now.
2006-08-30 06:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you should've been a better girlfriend, and who's to say that it's not just jealousy? Seeing him with another girl might be the key to wanting him back. Second, he must not really want to be with this girl if he's going to break up with her just like that, first love or not. You need to really sit back and think about if this is what you really want or if you're just wanting him because of her. I hope for your sake that it all works out.
2006-08-30 06:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by luvergurl2585 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you were a "bad" girlfriend, but you def. need to improve on your maturity level. It sounds like you are in it for the thrill, and now that he has a new gf, you want to "get him back" then once you get him back you may lose interest again. The only thing that will resolve this situation is if you make up your damn mind!
Also, put your self in her shoes....would you want the same thing to happen to you?
2006-08-30 06:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to your question. And it doesn't necessarily envolve a simple yes or no. In my oppinion yes and back off girl he's moved on you should too. And for him to want to dump and break his gf's heart to get you back. He sounds like a looser also.
2006-08-30 06:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to say. I dont know if he is playing you or not. We must always be aware that what we see may not be what really is. He seemes like a good guy. But i dont know that. Start of with being friends seeing how it turns out. If he dumps her and asks you out go out with him if you still like him. Love can wait untill for ever. When him and he brak up ask him out. If you really are his love and it is ment to be it will be in time.
2006-08-30 06:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you've been on and off for a while,
but if your friend wants to risk his girlfriend and get back with you,
he's really worth keeping
2006-08-30 06:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋