I met a great man,good with my kids and wonderful to me.The only problem is I am comfortable with him,like talking to him and all the cuddling and romance is wonderful.Only problem I am not attracted to him in that oh my god you're sexy kind of way.We haven't been intimate yet.can this work itself out?Will I eventially grow to feel this way or I should get out now?
2006-08-30 06:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by missinmysailor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stick around... we have been convinced by Hollywood that we will all end up with the amazingly hot girl or guy from the movies..........real life doesn't work like that........I'm not sure why we always think it does......It sounds like this could be the real thing....give it a chance and let your heart decide.....if you don't give it a chance you could be throwing away the best thing that ever happened to you..... This chance may never come again..........Good Luck!
2006-08-30 07:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by johnallga32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows maybe with time things will change but i don't think that if you are not attracted to this person chances are the intimacy will not be as strong as if you did, you have to at least have some sort of attraction towards the person in order for the chemistry to be high, i remember i once had this fling with a friend but we were both attracted to each other and our chemistry was amazing but didn't last too long cuz didn't want to destroy our friendship, anyway don't rush into things cuz you may blow things out of proportion, take things smoothly before jumping into bed, good luck
2006-08-30 06:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not comfortable with him now why wait until he is so into you that he cant think without you to put him aside? Or maybe you should give him a chance and see where things go if you'll develope something more for him in the end do what makes you happy.
2006-08-30 06:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by VANILLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy but you can grow to love someone...but most of the time you just end up tolerating them...but if he is good for you and your kids and you think it might be possible you never know...
just remeber you kids in the whole thing..
not much of an answer...sorry...good luck
just take a couple a days off from him and see how you feel
2006-08-30 06:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by turner32542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now in my opinion. You can't force attraction to someone just because they are a nice guy.
2006-08-30 06:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jenniphur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your passion come from love, not from lust, and it will be way better in the long run.
But if he's just kinda douchie and it's not gonna work, cut bait and leave.
2006-08-30 06:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by blacksockbandit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some time
2006-08-30 06:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by {--gRaY BuTT--} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, it's done all the time.
2006-08-30 06:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think so
2006-08-30 06:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by G. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋