Its really hard, he is REALLY talking to me like 4 yrs never happen and we have been nothing but friends all this time. I ache in my heart everytime we talk even though I am acting and laughing like all is fine and good. I tear up and try not to go noticed over the phone or on the net. Am I being fair to myself? Should I really be trying this friendship thing? He really wants this and I am hurting inside because he feels nothing after all the time we spent and all the things in life we went through and conquered together. I don't know what the right thing is to do......... I want to give him what he wants, but I can't without the feelings there nagging at me constantly......... please help..... what is the right thing to do here? Can I get past this and in time will it all go away? Why does he want to be friends?
2006-08-30 06:19:00 · 6 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ex's can not be friend trust me, just move on with your life because everytime you hear from him or see him your just going to remeber your past relationship of the two of you. Then your not going to continue your life because you still ache for him. I know its going to be hard but be honest with him and tell him that you can't be friend because you still have feeling for him and this is best for the both of you. Why would you want to be friends with an ex anyway there's a reason why there called "ex's". There's only two reasons why you want to keep an ex as a friend is 1. you still have feelings for them as well and don't want to let them go. 2. The person feel sorry for the other person cuz they know the other person was really into then but the feelings were not mutual so they want to let them down slowly but eventually the other person will move on and find someone else. So, just move on its for the best. Best Wished.
2006-08-30 06:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to step back and not talk to him. Thats the only way you'll ever get over him. They say it takes half the time people are together to get over them. I really think it's a bad idea to be friends at the begining, it will just confuse you and him for that matter.
2006-08-30 13:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by drumlove56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to heal as long as you continue talking to him. You need to be focused on your feelings, not trying to make him happy by being his friend. Honestly, I think the best thing to do is to stop all communication with him.
2006-08-30 13:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has ended the relationship because he has found someone else. End it and get over it.
2006-08-30 13:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better to be friends when u break up but if u cant handle it tell him.....maybe u will get back together with him
2006-08-30 13:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by ali03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he found some one else gurl u have to move on just be friend is iight rto be friend !!!!!!!!
2006-08-30 13:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by s3xii9url 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋