I met a girl 6 years back in college. I developed a serious crush on her and kept it to myself with out having the courage to tell her about my feelings. Suddenly Now after a gap of 6 years of no communication of any sort I burst out all my feelings for her which I hid for 6 years. She later told me that she was getting married to someone else and I was totaly down and broken for a while till recetly I found out that she is still single and she actualy lied to me. She does not want to talk to me. Now does she love me? And is there a way I can stop having thoughts of me being with her in the future? Should I still try persuing her? Thanks for you time
2006-08-30 06:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude its quite common to have a crush on someone and think about being with that person in the future. You get a feeling that this is the person with whom I want live my life with, but buddy CRUSH can be very deceiving and also it becomes very frustrating when you realise that you never gonna make it with her. Thats pretty ok, its normal and natural to have that kinda feeling. But don't you worry just move ahead in your life, spend time in your regular activities, there will be many more girls who will come into your life and the one with whom you will finally end up with you will realise is far far better than the ones with whom you couldn't make it.
Just learn from this experience of yours and mature up. Wish you all the best in life an pray that you find your true soul mate :)
2006-08-30 06:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Suraj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh. That's up to you if you persue her further but I'd give it time. Move on. She lied for crying out loud. Maybe she likes you back and was playing really hard to get and she wants you to come after her. Who knows? Move on for now. Best I have. Sorry if that's not the answer you wanted but well.
2006-08-30 06:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see the girl lied and told you that she was getting married after you confessed your feelings and you want to know if she loves you? Are you thinking about becoming a stalker? How loud does she have to say it? She does not want to have anything to do with you.
2006-08-30 06:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know love and lust are too different animals. Love is not an emotion though it affects them all and it is not a feeling, though feelings are affected as well. Love is a CHOICE. It is the act of choosing to be responsible for someone else's emotions. Are you willing to be the BLAME for her good and bad days? The answer to that will guide the direction of your pursuits.
Phantom
2006-08-30 06:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by phantom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she told you that she was married and that was a lie, then she doesn't want to be with you. and if she doesn't want to talk to you then she doesn't want to be with you. so i don't think that you have a cold days chance in hell with her!
2006-08-30 06:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by amandy245 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she is telling you she is not interested.....let her go
2006-08-30 06:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by ali03 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, she obvously doesnt like you... move on...
2006-08-30 06:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by steff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋