I met a guy in a singles web sight. We hit it off great we Im and talked on the phone to each other for hours everyday for weeks. We decided to met each other (he is the one that started wanting to meet first I finally agreed). I talked to him the night before we where to me and he was fine and couldn't wait to see me. He said he would call when he got to my area( he lives about 11/2 hrs away) He even emailed me that nigh later to say he was coming down and again would call me. That was fri. Sat came no call. Sat night no call no email so I emailed him no answer. Sunday nothing. Same with mon and tues. I emailed for him to call or email me sun night but nothing. I'm afraid to call him. I was sure the emails where enough. In my last email that I sent tues. I told him if I didn't hear from him soon I was concidering the situation done with. Should I call him or stick with what I said in my last e-mail?
2006-08-30 06:11:51 · 23 answers · asked by happy_cute_mom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave the next move to him. if he's truely interested he'll contact you, if he doesn't, then he isn't worth the worry over.
2006-08-30 06:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most internet chatrooms are just for people to fulfill there fantasies, and when it finally gets to the point of meeting someone they disappear and find someone new to talk to because they realized the game went to far. Its just an online game. He could be married. The chatrooms are more or less based on lies. Sometimes it's a way for married people to cheat without cheating. A chatroom is not a good place to find a meaningful relationship.
2006-08-30 13:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stick with what you said in the email. It sounds like he is scared of personal meetings and got scared and now he is embarrassed but there is really not much you can do about that.
2006-08-30 13:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is over for whatever reason. Maybe he got cold feet. Anyway, always best to give him the benefit of the doubt. Threats don't accomplish anything in this situation. Yes, call him.
2006-08-30 13:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him if he dosn't answer I would leave. ITs obvious he dosnt want to be with you at all. If he did he would have emailed you. Most internet friends are not really internet friends most of them just want some thing to ocupy their time. You can probably never find any source of love on the internet. Maby but its rare.
2006-08-30 13:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand tall, and stick with your original response to the situation. First reaction, is usually the best reaction. Find a new internet friend.
2006-08-30 13:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by President25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did start to drive down and got pulled over by the police and had an outstanding warrant for his arrest.
check with local law enforcement and hospitals.
or maybe he is just a chump
2006-08-30 13:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick what you said in your last email be mostly likely he stood you up i had a girl do this me i found out later she was married with a child he obviosly stood you up that was not right at all
2006-08-30 13:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by raul_garcia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either a flake or married. Or perhaps he already has a girlfriend.
Don't invest so much time in a person before you meet them.
2006-08-30 13:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your last e-mail. Until you know more you would have to believe he just does not consider you important enough to let you know what happened.
2006-08-30 13:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
something must have happened to him no 1 dissapears after nothing...why didnt u call him maybe he had an accident,,,try calling him
2006-08-30 13:17:32 · answer #11 · answered by lollypop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋