To Cry Or Not To Cry?

Question

Should I cry when I'm sad? Or be strong about it?

Answer 1

I think crying is very important. Often many try to not show they are unhappy. They refuse to cry and keep the pain within them. I think its like poison. The more we take within us the more we will become toxic. The worst form of this is when one holds within them tears so long, they they forget how to cry. I was among those and wish nothing even close to this. It has taken me 5 years and a lot of help to realize that all I need to do to cry again is to not feel shame for a tear rolling down my cheek.

Hails to the soul of hearts,
Silence

Answer 2

u need 2 cry or else you will get a sick feeling. When I hold in my cry from anger, I get a headache, so I end up crying anyway because the headache is so bad.

Answer 3

Cry first and then you will be strong about it.

Answer 4

Cry, is better. Its a release. Nothing wrong with crying.

Answer 5

i used to cry when ever i got sad or someone hurted my feelings..i alwaz used to tell this to my mum and she told me to be strong cause they are many pains in life which are less then yours..she told me "bascially tears makes u weak each moment u cry" but try to talk to yourself when u sad that u r strong and no matter what u wont cry! n trust me i followed what she said till today i dont cry in to tears ya m nt sayin it doesnt hurt me but i talk to myself and alwaz kip saying this to myself that i am brave

Answer 6

by all means cry, it's our natural grieving outlet and helps in healing. I'd be more concerned with someone that didn't cry. There's gotta be something psychotic about that.

Answer 7

no i think you should have a great sob and no joke it makes me feel better so i think it will do the same for you !

Answer 8

which ever makes u feel better