I gave my live-in boyfriend an ablum with professional pictures of me posing seductively and some in the nude. He looked at it twice and did not look at it again. I'm very upset. Should I be upset? It took a lot of my time to pose for this pictures and it seems that he did not really care too much for the gift. I think he would have preferred another type of gift. What do you guys think?
2006-08-30 06:06:45 · 33 answers · asked by Geneva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had a girlfriend that had erotic black and white photos taken and although i enjoyed looking at them it somehow made me feel weird like she had done something intimate with other people.
2006-08-30 06:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by denny 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm thinking he's a little upset and wondering about 'who' took the pictures. To you it might have seemed harmless but maybe he's looking at one of the pictures and wondering who put that sultry look on your face. Its a nice idea and everything but some men don't like the fact that the photographer and yes he's assuming its a 'he' got privy to the whole live shoot before he did. Maybe he wished you'd ask him to take the pics although they might not have been of professional quality (unless your boyfriend is a professional photographer), but it would have represented something shared between you two. I don't know. Who can ever understand whats going through the other person's mind. Maybe you should try talking to him.
2006-08-30 06:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is SO hot. As for being upset about a photographer seeing her naked..so what. They are professionals and do this stuff for a living. Much like doctors see people naked all the time as well.
I would love to get a gift like this!!
2006-08-30 06:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is probably upset that you posed naked for someone else. You really have no right to get upset. Just ask him why he don't like the gift. What did you want him to do put it up where every one could see you? I am sure he has a reason for the way he is acting. My husband would of probably divorced me if I did something like that even if the photographer was a woman.
2006-08-30 06:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by MAS 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
OK, I'm not a guy, but *THINK* about this for a minute, will you!! WHO TOOK THE PICTURES??!!
I've had this conversation with my husband, so I know. The idea of *anyone* else seeing me in that kind of situation makes him a bit nuts. So, if he were to see me that way, that would be the only thing he could think of -- and he would *NOT* be interested in seeing the pictures, not even once!!
This may be what is happening with your bf. On the other hand, it may be having a totally different effect, and he wants to look at the pictures in private -- totally in private, if you catch my drift -- LOL!!
Don't let it bother you. If you really feel bad about it, just *ASK* him what the problem is. Communication is the best cure -- if the hardest one with guys, don't cha know!
2006-08-30 06:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is a totally awesome gift. That would be my treasure. I would have to hide it from the kids. I would wonder who took the pictures. I will always have my girl in my heart and minds eye and forever treasure the sexy gifts of passion that we share through our life. She would watch jack my rod on her and the beautiful pleasure album. MMMM Love.
2006-08-30 06:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by M2J 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I will pay the postage if you send it to me!!!
Seriously, he is a jerk. I would love that type of gift and would treasure it. I would definitely have to protect the pictures because they would tend to get messy on the nights you were away. That album shows you have deep feelings for him, and he should have understood that. I hope you got them back. You can always give them to someone more deserving or just keep them.
2006-08-30 06:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Apparently, you're not getting any good answers from the men...
However, I'll just say I have mentioned doing that for my boyfriend, and he loves the idea!
And yea, I'd probably be mad if I were you. But ya know...maybe he just rather have you...
2006-08-30 06:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hubby loved it!
2017-01-25 00:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I love the pictures she did for me.
2014-12-02 16:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've love to get one from my girlfriend, however when you can have the real 3D thing the book wouldn't make much of a difference to me.
2006-08-30 06:19:40 · answer #11 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋