i have recently been thinking about girls and having naughty thoughts of girls!
i would like to try a think with a girl but i think i would be well shy and would feel a lil strange to touch a woman like that as i am used to male parts :0)
what do i do!
just let the thoughts to carry on or do i explore? and how?
2006-08-30 05:52:48 · 17 answers · asked by princessnicola23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explore. You may be a little shy at first but don't let that stand in your way. Go about that same way you would with a boy. I recommend using the Internet to connect with other like minded women first. This will help you feel more comfortable when you eventually go out to meet someone. And who knows? You might even find a person who you want to meet in the real world in your search :)
2006-08-30 05:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let yourself be tempted to do something you will regret later. It may be you're going through growing stages and the curiosity always gets the best out of us. It's may be your hormones too. Try to date more guys.
I don't think that homosexuality is a born thing but a choice so I suggest to do the right thing and think clearly because when you go down that route, and later find out that you like men, then you are labeled as a bi-sexual and straight men wont accept you and you wont be able to turn back time, after the fact.
If I'm not mistaken, I think what you are going through is because you may have not had the opportunity as a child to play with girls. I'm an only child and at first I felt unconfortable talking or being around many women. Somehow I felt like a guy or something but in my heart, I'm always attracted to men, and never had the curiosity to like women. There are times you will have fantacies but that's all they are. Don't act on it. It is our nature as women to watch our competition b/c men population are few we need to see what we are competing with. You ever notice how we women also look at ladies bodies and hair, and all?. Just like man, but it's just to see what we are up against. Don't confuse yourself and think you are a lesbian or something. If you been with men, you just haven't been with the right one. Don't rush and let men come to you.
I suggest, go to a salon and get a spa treatment. Make yourself beautiful and you'll see that you will be attracted to yourself and other men too, and you will forget all about it. It's all about confidence and belief in yourself that you need to work on. Go to a good christian base church (non-denominational) and speak to someone there. They will give you support.
over all, my opinion is DON'T DO IT.
2006-08-30 06:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by Treasure 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm not used to giving advice but look into it, you only live once and who knows these thoughts down the line might get worse and could interfere with a relationship or a marriage so it might be wise to learn more about these feelings before anything else.
2006-08-31 11:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Funny Shy Guy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let the thoughts carry on and if they get to a point that they really start getting to you...maybe you should try it and see if thats what you want. If you don't like it you just don't do it anymore.
2006-08-30 06:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave for awhile and see if those feelings escalate, if they do then I'd explore. If those thoughts remain at a low level than have fun fantasies with it. Try gumtree at first for some safe fun.
2006-08-30 06:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Suede 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to fantasise about it, you don't have to jump into bed with another woman. If you do want to try it then maybe try to find someone who is also curious and see how it goes. You might end up loving being with other women. Try dating websites, most would cater for bisexual women.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
2006-08-30 05:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women experience the same feelings. It's called being "bisexual". Go for it! Chances are there are a lot of girls at your school who want to try the same thing.
2006-08-30 06:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age and what else is going on your life. If you're 16 or under you really should concentrate and school and developing yourself. Otherwise, if you meet the right girl go ahead and experiment, but don't go seeking that type of girl.
2006-08-30 06:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by XR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have thoughts like that bcoz its the unknown and sometimes its more if you feel you cant control the erg no more that's when you should explore....
2006-08-30 06:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find that out when you meet a woman who you like and she likes you so keep exploring till then
2006-08-30 05:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by dawn44005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋