Ok so there's this girl I work with who is about 10 years older than me and married, im wondering if she really likes me or if she's just curious to know if im gay, I think she may like me because she gives me compliments alot like on my jeans which means maybe she's checking me out, and also at work she always finds a way to be around me. Whenever I have to go to a certain area she will always come close to where I am no matter what she was doing before. The bad part is that I do sort of like her but she's married, is she just being nice or could she in fact like me?
2006-08-30 05:37:08 · 8 answers · asked by Shayne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shouldn't matter if she likes you or not..... she's MARRIED. Stay away from that kind of trouble. Nothing good will come from it, especially if her hubby finds out. And if you do end up having an affair with her and it doesn't work out you still have to work with her and feel awkward eveytime you see her. You know that old saying.....Don't mix business with pleasure. There's a reason that saying was made.
2006-08-30 05:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by CLM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you even though she's married some poeple aren't HAPPILY married. I suggest that whether or not this makes you uncomfortable you should say something to her. I think due to the fact that youre both at work she feels uneasy to say anything. I think it would be fair if you say something..become proactive and ask her whats going on and proceed. Apparently her being married doesnt seem to matter to her since shes only interested in you. You do need to make your feelings known so its not leading her on and misleading on both sides so you both wont get hurt.
Whether you're gay or not you should still say something and nick it in the butt.
2006-08-30 12:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is complimenting u.......if u are gay they maybe u are afraid u think she is checking u out. I would leave her alone she is married find someone else.
2006-08-30 12:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by ali03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're gay, then what's the problem? you were'nt gonna f*** her anyway. if you're not and she's checking out your a** then give it to her. she would'nt be looking if she was happily married. right?
2006-08-30 12:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by wedged15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do YOU think she's wondering if you are gay?
2006-08-30 12:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Fee4Lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's feeling you but aye she's married
2006-08-30 12:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, she's MARRIED. Hands off!
2006-08-30 12:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you already know if she thinks your gay ,because if you even think someone thinks that HELLO YOUR QUEER !!!
2006-08-30 12:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dick Dastardly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋