Im really interested in this girl at uni, but more than anything just wanna hang with her
ive invited her the last 2 weeks to do something (pub/club), but she was busy on both days (Family photo, and was at her nannas) I beleive 100% she was.
both times she said sorry, and that next time she would go.
She had a Boyfriend 3 months ago, when he was last brought up (dunno if they still together),
I wont and will never do anything to break em up, or do any moves, more of just getting to know her
each time ive said im gonna be here, wanna come, rather than just inviting her to go out with me. that bad?
I wanna invite her out again this week, but realllly dont wanna sms, which is how i have invited her out before, and i wont get chance to see her at uni.
bit nervous how what to ask on phone, and if i should ring back, ie if she is at work and doesnt answer.
I know she likes me more than a friend, even if its less than a bf, i often see her looking in my direction
2006-08-30 05:28:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple. Just break a few more ices by asking her out with a group of friends. Go for a dinner together perhaps a movie after that. Be sure though, as a guy, try ur best to impress her. Engage in conversations which shows ur maturity. However avoid defaming your friend in order to get the girls attention. Thsi is a turn-off for girls. Get to know her better, and when u got the feeling when u feel like you are comfortable with her, make the move,and ask her out. Who knows what my happen next.
2006-08-30 05:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done great so far. You have great moral values. I would just say hey I know you are busy but if you get some free time I would like to hang out..go to a movie or get something to eat. Then it is up to her to let you know when she is available.
2006-08-30 12:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call more than once. Do tell her where you are going and be straight with her. Let her know that you'd love her company. Girls like nice guys, but don't be too nice if you have been already? If she says no, she says no. Next time you wait for the call. If she says yes hooray!
2006-08-30 12:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by sac_baby_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be direct, and flattery never hurts. We girls love that stuff. If she does like you, then you in! You may want to be sure she is not with anyone else though at the moment. No need to put yourself out there if she is.
2006-08-30 12:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her up and tell her...hey i know you said we would have a chance to get together another time and i really have absolutly nothing to do so you wanna save me from boredome and go out for a cup of coffee.....that way you dont seem desperate...just in need of some fun and someone to talk to so you ownt be bored
2006-08-30 12:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and try your luck, who knows She may say yes this time, Just do it go ahead and say I want be your friend can you go out with me where whre and soso. it may work.
2006-08-30 12:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just afraid of being hurt. but 3rd times sometimes is a chram. ask her if shes a no show move on there plenty fish in the sea
2006-08-30 12:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with what most people said here....keep asking, she will give in.
I say all the time, when you know, you know. From a girl's perspective, knowing that "he" is "into" you, is the biggest turn on.
Don't give up, call, email, do what you have to. Let her know you are "into" her.....
2006-08-30 12:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ASK! Don't be shy. You could be missing out on something special. Life is short, so go for it!
2006-08-30 12:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by ladysaz2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say," hey I like you and I want to go out again if that is ok with you." :)
2006-08-30 12:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋