I've met a man who was the executive chef of the Hotel I stayed in. I went out only once with him but was impressed as he was really kind to me. When I returned, he said that he wished to be my boyfirend. He also told me that he was married and had a daughter but was living seperated for 2 years and trying to get divorced. He did not give any other detail about that. I told him that I needed to think for some time. We kept in contact by sms and e-mail within this period. He is one of the most famous persons in my country in his profession, so I know he is busy. But, one day, about a week ago, he wrote me an sms stating that he had to go to Germany for 3 days and that the mobile could have been unreachable. His sudden going to Germany made me think that he was lying. Now I think that he is not seperated, and also that as he is in the tourism business, he has many girlfriends. Hadn't I told him that I don't trust him anymore, he would be in my city this weekend to see me.
2006-08-30 05:26:26 · 3 answers · asked by rüzgar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, mistaken.
2006-08-30 05:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh tough one. Okay I don't think he's lying b/c if he's as famous as you say he is, he may have to do some business in Germany. Okay he's separated with a daughter and NOT divorced??!! Didn't red flags go off when you heard that?! That's a messy situation only b/c divorce papers aren't signed and his ex wife could potentially try and get back with him..which makes it even more messy. I would cut this guy loose b/c he's not divorced and you could possibly be caught in the middle. That's not a good situation to be in.
2006-08-30 12:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a rapist
2006-08-30 12:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Shameless Women's Advocate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋