I know it is crazy, but I think there is a real connection that I have never had before with a woman. And yes, I know the difference between a real thing and a girl just running game on me.
2006-08-30 05:24:57 · 49 answers · asked by Brad 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may be the real thing. Strippers can love just as much as anyone else. BUT Be very careful. Most strippers will use their "regulars" as much as they can. Also, use protection if it comes to that.
2006-08-30 05:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's older than 30, you may have a chance other than that it will never work. Don't get me wrong, most of these girls are not what you think. They are smart ,responsible and level headed. They save their money,go to school ,become productive citizens. Here is where the problem begins. After they quit,and move on ,most of them for the most part become embarrassed about their past. Not that they should but 90% do. In the end you are the only physical thing that ties themselves to there past. Other than that, just take the ride. No matter which way it ends up, we humans do not learn from others.We seem to jump into the pit and find out for are self. Good luck
2006-08-30 05:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Billy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have known her for a while then go for it. Be careful though that you know where she has been and that you are not going to get trapped with some extra baggage you may not know about. I had a friend who started dating a stripper and I was really skeptical about her for a while but I got to know her better and found out she was a pretty cool person and a year later they are now moving in together. Good Luck
2006-08-30 05:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by RaeRaeAnn 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may not be crazy... but I'm not sure love is the right word. Have you spent time with her "outside" of the club. Time that has nothing to do with her taking her clothes off? Do you genuinely care about her well-being, and is that recipricol? Is your relationship about more just sex and/or money? If the answer to these questions is yes, there is nothing crazy about being in love with a stripper.
2006-08-30 05:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by answerlady1021 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look Brad, I know that many people may say you're crazy but you are the only one who knows how you feel for this girl, and how she feels towards you. Just always be careful! Make sure that you don't let her play around with you. Plus, giving it a chance won't hurt, you eventually see in the end if it was worth it or not . Good luck!
2006-08-30 05:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Maria A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear friend,
Didn't u get anybody else to fall in love with?. dont u know, stripper just act as if they love u but they do it for money! money! money! Nothing else. Its their profession. If u r from a very good family background, then u wont go for a stripper. When sombody else pays more money to her, she goes with him.
y cant u go for somone who is doing a decent job. say like from a diner girl to fashion designer. do u think u cud withstand the harrasment that u will have to face when your loved ones mock u for marrying a stripper. Who knows, she wud even be a hooker.
Keep your standards.find somone nice beautiful,who matches u. everybody has just one life. use it properly.
AAdios
2006-08-30 05:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bravo mike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Treat her job as only a "job". She does not care for the people she entertains. If it is a "real thing", then follow your heart and before long, you will both be an item. Just hope that you are not a jealous person. That's the deal breaker for couples where one is involved in the "entertainment" industry.
2006-08-30 05:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do whatever you feel to do, if you really love her, you wont mind if she's a stripper or not.
Love her and trust her, is the best thing I can tell you.
Good luck and I hope it goes great between you guys.
2006-08-30 07:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Papayita :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love her, then her being a stripper should not bother you at all.
Remember that when you said that you really fell in-love with this woman, then you fell inlove with her, not on what she does for a living.
2006-08-30 05:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by arnold m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fantasy is such a wonderful thing! Ask John Karr! Faith without proof is just blind faith!
2006-08-30 05:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋