I'm going to college far away in 3 weeks, I've been with my boyfriend for four months, he is my age but a senior in high school now (I'm young for my grade). We can't decide about whether to stay together or not, what do you think?
2006-08-30 05:20:36 · 30 answers · asked by igotaquestion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't love you and show his love for you by doing things for you, making you feel great and support you in your goals in life them dump him he is just using you. Is it love of just a friendship? You will have a lot of friends at school and throughout life. Stay with the people that love you. Do you want to marry this person? If not keep him as a friend but let him know that even though he is number one right now things just might change as you meet other people. You will only be honest with him and if you like him you should be honest with him.
2006-08-30 05:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Angelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain in contact, but don't commit yourself to him. Saying I won't date and will wait for you are just words. As you get to college and meet new friends you will more than likely move on. You are going there to study and worrying about someone miles away will distract you from that. Believe me when I tell you it usually does not work over the long haul. So have fun and expect him to do the same. When you go home and you still want to see each other , then do so.
2006-08-30 05:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be hard because you are going far away into a new environment, your mind will be in your studies and adapting to your new life and surroundings;
I'd think it would be best to remain friends, and write or call each other if you miss each other badly. You both are still very young, and the likelihood of meeting new people will be high. Good luck, have fun and live fully.
2006-08-30 05:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships rarely work out, but it's worth a shot! Once you get to college you'll want to experience new things, plus you'll meet new people. If you brake it off now then you can leave on good terms, if you go and end up meeting someone you really like, then you have to explain to your current boyfriend that you met someone new and that could turn ugly, try to leave on good terms. If you know that you can stay faith full than stay with him, but you never know what could happen when your away
hope this helps
2006-08-30 05:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by yamahaviper_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't decide it is probably best to end it for now. It is alot of hard work to keep a long distance relationship going. Even people who are certaint that it is worth it sometimes fail under the pressure. If you want to try again when you can be closer together then that would be ok.
2006-08-30 05:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about this guy, than breaking up with him isn't the answer. It will be hard, and it may not work out, but if he is worth it, give it a shot. Your life will change drastically once you go off to college. The independence that you are going to experience will be both wonderful and a little scary. Enjoy it, but be careful!! As long as you are both honest with one another, it could work.
2006-08-30 05:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't stay together, it won't make any sense for you to stay together. You're in college far away, what kind of relationsip do you expect to have?
There are going to be so many college men. Be single and have fun. You are too young to be tied down to one person.
2006-08-30 06:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kesh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay together for starters, all relationships have challenges...if you are willing to work through the ones that distance brings, then you know it was meant to be. But it won't take long to find out!
2006-08-30 05:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Fee4Lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a rational and honest discussion of what you both really want to do, not what one person wants to do, but BOTH. See what he says..digest it and then tell him what you really want to do and go from there. If you come to a mutual decision then go for that, but if not and your at an impasse, then I'd stay together and see where it goes...good luck...long distance relationships are tough, but they can work!
2006-08-30 05:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay together, long distance relationships do work. I have been in one for a year and a half and things are wonderful.
2006-08-30 05:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by baby8888girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋