2006-08-30 05:14:42 · 35 answers · asked by John C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p45......................:-)
2006-08-30 05:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....I advise you withdraw.
Female anger directed towards actual or potential mates is often a subconcious test to see whether you will buckle or stand your ground.
If you buy her gifts or supplicate to her in anyway you will immediately reduce the attraction she has for you. The tests will get worse and eventually she will walk away.
You need to be calm, friendly but totally uneffected by her dramatic emotions. Just tell he that what she sees it what she gets and that it's up to her if she wants to walk or stay.
Stay friendly and just walk away. Don't try to contact her but if she tries to get back in contact then be courteous and warm (but not mushy or beggging!)
This sub-communicates to her that you will always remain calm even when she turns on maximum drama and that you can be trusted to take charge and stay in charge when things REALLY go wrong in the big bad world.
You will find that her attraction for you will double or treble when she realises she's with a man who cannot be controlled through strong emotion or sexuality....women's traditional means of manipulation.
It marks you out as Alpha and reliable as a potential father.
Viking xxx
2006-08-30 19:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Viking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why she is angry. If you actually messed up some how. I would do some serious thinking to come up with something that see likes. Prove to her that you actually listen & care. If see likes one particular flower get them, type of wine, scent of candle, favorite musical group, etc, etc, etc.
Another thing to consider is what type of angry person she is. Is she known for violence or being distructive? You might consider something that's not going to break into a million pieces if she throws it at you. You might not want to be blowing a ton of money on this gift either.
One gift my girlfriend really like was a custom teddy bear.
2006-08-30 05:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends upon how angry she is. first start off with a nice, simple and sincere apology with a few flowers. if it involves another person, if possible ask them to explain ur situation too. some gift which ur gf was wanting all life neatly wrapped with a ribbon should do the trick.
2006-08-30 05:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you have done... something "trivial"... then something that will make her laugh.... be naked, tie a ribbon around your "a-hem"... two stick on bows over each nipple, and hold a flower 'tween your teeth... and in big black marker pen, write I'm sorry on your stomach.
If you've done something really bad... then do nothing, say nothing and wait for it to pass, accepting the odd object that comes flying your way with dignity and grace.
2006-08-30 05:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First an apology... a sincere apology. You should not have to buy presents ... but a nice loose bouquet of flowers is a start.
2006-08-30 05:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how angry she is......
an hour late = flowers
2 hours late = flowers and chocolates
missed birthday/anniversary = multiple presents apologising for a year
caught having an affair= your balls on a plate
2006-08-30 05:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by crownose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
flowers chocolate and a deep heart felt sorry even if it isnt ur fault. then maybe a romantic dinner., best of luck
never forget the three words" i love u" i will get u far in life
2006-08-30 05:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a beautiful poem and give it to her along with a rose....or make a mixed CD with love songs that she might like and give it to her with flowers...i suggest planning out something that is really romantic and she will remember ...don't just get her jewelry or some other material item
2006-08-30 05:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about the present you get, it's about the apology, and whether you mean it, and whether you are truly sorry for what you did. Then do something just for her!!!
2006-08-30 05:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of flowers or chocolates try to write to her instead.
A poem or even a small love letter.
Something personal she'll love it
2006-08-30 05:18:27 · answer #11 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋