for women only?

Question

I honestly believe that most women want a man compatible with their goals and ambitions,yet most have men only to realize they are far from what they invision

Answer 1

I think it's wrong to go into a relationship with expectations that the person your with will have the same life mission as you. Expectations, in general, can completely destroy a relationship if both parties don't realize that life isn't always going to happen the way you saw it in your mind. The ability to adapt to different circumstances while still loving eachother is what the foundation of a relationship is. People change, life changes, but if you have that love in your heart, it shouldn't matter. The only goal should be to work thru life together - Whatever that may bring.

Answer 2

I want a man that is compatable, but when I am with someone, I always learn something new about myself. I think part of the reason is that when you are with someone for a while, you tend to change without even realizing, and then you feel like there is someone out there that is more compatable. However, I have had some relationships in which I became even more compatable to the person i was with. But, you know what they say, Opposites attract, and when your with someone that is not like you, you begin to realize what else is out in the world. What's beautiful or funny or interesting from their eyes, and you begin to appreciate things at a different level.

Answer 3

not sure what the question is but yes i agree. its because alot of women settle. they start something and instead of ending it in the beginning..they think it might work out so why not try? only to end up wasting months of their lives and having to start over again......with another loser. i really think that theres so many people out there who dont know what LOVE is and will never find it. they are selling themselves short but dont even know it. but then again.....how do you begin to describe love to someone? you cant, so they wont know until they find it for themselves. damn, i think that was way confusing. oops...okay lets just say, yea i agree lol :)

Answer 4

Being a woman...I can say that our minds are ever-changing. I think we have this ideal man in our mind so of course we come to realize that they are most definitly not that...because no one is perfect.

My dad always told me "All guys are assholes, you just have to find one asshole you can put up with!"

And that's what we women do!!!

Answer 5

this is because too many of us settle for less that what we deserve. everyone seems to be in a hurry to"hook up" asap. no one seems to wait for the right person to come along.. i find most women very sad because they get someone so not right for them..

Answer 6

they do...but then they begin to loose hope and settle for some guy they have nothing in common with....i for one dont plan on getting married until i find that one guy who shares and supports my dreams and goal and principles and who will love me no matter what

Answer 7

that always happens we get involved with someone and think they are fantastic then things get a bit ruff and we realise everything we thought was great about them well not much of it was real.

Answer 8

ya u r right but sometimes it happens.

anyway next time ask a question right.

love u

Answer 9

Men are good liars, I suppose. THey brag and pretend they're great, when in reality they're - if not losers - not so great.

Answer 10

i know what i want in a man....thanks for the 2