My boyfriend last night asked be to try the backdoor.?

Question

I told him not yet.
My last boyfriend wanted to try it too.
Maybe I should think about doing it ??

Answer 1

My bf always asked if i wanted to try it and i would always respond immediately with NO WAY! Then one day i was just feeling like hey what the heck, we are in a committed relationship and trying new things can't hurt. I also knew that if i was uncomfortable he would stop. It was ok, not my favorite thing to do, but it is something that he likes to do, so i compromise and when i want to stop we do. Give it some thought but do not do it if you don't want to. You shouldn't do anything you aren't comfortable with. :) Talk to him about it.

Answer 2

You should consider at least trying it once. I recommend making it an evening of anal play with toys where you both try what it feels like to have someone put things in there. Chances are, you'll both love it and want more, but if you don't, it's better to find our sooner, and when you aren't actually trying to have sex that way because it could ruin the mood. I personally loved it and I don't know anyone who's tried it and said they don't. Most people are just afraid of trying.

I wish you both good luck with that :)

Answer 3

I don't get these other women. Just beacuse they don't like it doesn't mean you won't LOVE it.

A girl actually broke up with me once cause I had never tried! But she never told me that she wanted it. I guess everyone has thei own thing and like I tell my kids, You don't know if you like something until you try it. I tried it 2 times with my wife. It was not all that, so I have never tried again.

Answer 4

Well if you decide to do it my advice is start off with you lying on your back legs folded onto yourself (knees on chest) and him slowly inching it into you from the front as he faces you. You'll need plenty of lube and he has to be patient and careful. When you are totally relaxed inside it shouldn't hurt.

Answer 5

You should always try new things....remember guys look for things in other girls if their girls won't give it to them.....but talk to him about how you feel, about taking it slow, being careful with you because you have never done this....also, look into lubricants you might use to help....and last but not least....everything you will feel is mental, once you get used to it, it won't hurt or feel as weird.....Good Luck!

Answer 6

To be honest, it hurts a lot, I don;t understand women that say they feel pleasure, I've tried it, and I feel pain and discomfort, but it all depends on the woman, so try it if you want to, not if he is pressuring you to do it.

Answer 7

You seem to have a way with attracting guys that are really attracted to your caboose. You must have a fine one for them to be so interested in penetrating it. If you want to try it then its your a** literally. Make sure it is what you want to try and maybe get some ideas from women on what to expect for the first time if indeed it is

Answer 8

I never understood why any guy would want to do that when he's got a girl who HAS a vag.

I think they are secretly gay and in denial by pretending to be with a female, or they must have really terrible aim.

Answer 9

What's it gonna hurt just to try it? You might like it. Give it a shot and if you don't like it, then don't do it again.

If it's "just OK", maybe you can keep doing it because your BF likes it and it pleases him.

Answer 10

Don't try it unless you're completely comfortable with it, but when you are take your time and use lubrication and you may find it's not all that bad.