I'm seeing a new guy.. but the problem is my ex wouldnt stop texting me and calling me. The new guy i'm with keeps asking me am i alright and that he is worried about me, they other day my ex rang my phone 9 times within an hour. He keeps cjecking up on me and it's like i have to answer to my mother, father and my ex!! He is like a stalker!!! My ex was outside my house when my new fella pulled up in his car and he just walked off, the new guy was very quiet and i kept asking him was it to do with my ex he said no, but it was obvious it was... today i got a txt from the guy that i'm seeing saying are you sure everythings ok between us and he admitted that this was the reason he was so quiet they other night i reasurred him that he had nothing to worry about and that i dodnt want my ex back!!! what should i do!!!
2006-08-30 04:56:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you might not want your ex back and have told your new guy that. the problem isn't that your new boyfriend doesn't believe you. He feels threaten by the fact your ex is still around and untill your ex is out of the picture it will make things very hard. tell your ex to take a break from contacting you for a while, if it doesn't work then go to the police for help.
2006-08-30 05:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex sounds obsessive - I would tell him firmly to stop contacting you or you will go to the police and file a restraining order against him.
The sad thing is, this new guy might eventually get scared off from all of this. So you need to take care of the ex before you loose this new guy!
2006-08-30 05:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bugger of a situation.
This may be mean, but I'd be tempted to get a friend or sibling to start texting the ex 25 times a day and see how he likes it.
Can you get your dad to talk to the ex? Or a big-@ss male friend to suggest to him that he leave you alone?
Anyways, as time goes forward, your ex will realize he's out of the picture and move on. Just ask your current bf to try be a little patient.
2006-08-30 05:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by pezdispenserwisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of you may got here back with your ex, for the reason which you suggested which you 2 have a lot of issues in elementary. try no longer no be motivated by using your persons, make your guy or woman judgements. i are conscious of it is going to be very perplexing, attempting to get your existence settled, and to be in love with somebody who does not seem to compliment to quiet down the comparable way you do. it particularly is significant which you upward thrust up for what's physically powerful for you. It seems such as you have carried out a rather sturdy activity of that already, so kudos to you! you do no longer might desire to be cruel or nasty to him, yet basically tell him gently that jointly as you adore him, you in addition to might have plans on your existence If he's no longer waiting to commit, then you particularly choose him no illwill, and you nonetheless care approximately him, yet you may do what's physically powerful for your self, and enable him circulate. you may enable your self time to discover somebody who's sturdy for you and able to commit so which you've got the existence you pick. tell him if he desires time to be certain what he needs, it somewhat is advantageous, yet which you're unlikely to look ahead to him.
2016-09-30 04:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your ex and tell him that you are not comfortable with the fact that he still checks on you when it's over between you two, tell him in a very polite manner to leave you in peace because you have already moved on with your life.
it is also better to tell the new guy the whole story for him to understand your situation and maybe he could offer you some help.
2006-08-30 05:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by smiling face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just confirm to your current guy that everything is okay and that your ex is acting a bit imature about moving on but that there is nothing for him to worry about
2006-08-30 05:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not like he is a stalker, he is a stalker. Get a restraining order before his possessive behavior goes any further.
2006-08-30 05:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order.
2006-08-30 04:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_guy67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the new guy whats goin on and your ex to back off. whats he gonna do about it. if the new guy cares hell stand up for you
2006-08-30 04:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and change your number and stop answer your phone i think the new guy is sweet and you should stay with him ggod luck
2006-08-30 05:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋