i've 3 guys in my life,whom should i chose?
1.my ex boyfriend who still loves me
2.that guy who thinks me his best friend but i love him
3.that guy who loves me but i think him my best friend
-friends,what should i do?i am in a gr8 confusion in chosing,please help,pleaseeeeeeeeeee............
2006-08-30 04:53:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well these is what i have to say
(1) you and your ex boyfriend had a problem that led to the breaking up of the relationship, and i guess if you to come back, it will break up again.
(2) You luv you best friend, then let him know before another girl would do that before you, but if he has a girl friend, then you better lead them be.
(3) For the guy that loves you, i don't think you love him too, so even if you go for him, the relationship won't last i promise you that. Because the love for each other is not equal.
I hope you think over this, but if you don't understand then e-mail and tell me more about them all, so that i can explain more better.
2006-08-30 05:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down somewhere calming and ask urself a few questions.1)Which,among the 3 do u 'love'_not only find attractive?2)With whom do u see a possible future,which u will be proud of & not shy away in shame from?3)who respects u the most,loves u despite ur short comings?4.who do u respect & communicate best with?who do u feel understands ur silence or unspoken words?Are any of them worth thinking as a 'lover' or merely best pals only?May be u needn't choose at all..but take time for some serious contemplation.Good luck!
2006-08-30 05:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer. Chose the guy you love. Nothing else has even the tinyest chance of making you happy. If he decides he doesn't love you, then you have to find someone else whom you love. But don't chose a guy you don't love. You will just be sad and miserable, no matter how good he is to you.
Good luck. We're keeping our fingers crossed for you :)
2006-08-30 04:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very easy guy # 2..
ur ex, is an ex which means past tense.. don't go backwards.. he's ur ex for a reason... who cares if he loves u, the question is do u love him?
and the guy who loves u, but u feel like he is ur best friend let him know that u see him as such..
i chose # 2 cause u love him, and if u tell him how u feel u might just have a shot...
2006-08-30 04:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. Do you have to pick from one of the 3? Unless it was a life or death situation I would understand but there are many other guys out there who will be more compatible than the 3 listed above.
2006-08-30 04:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wellllllllllllllllll.... It depends if guy #2 will ever look at you as more than a best friend. If so choose him. If not can you look at guy #3 as more than a friend. if not then that leaves guy #1 or guy #4 (new guy). I would choose guy #4.
2006-08-30 04:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should choose the one that you love.. U shouldn't choose your ex boyfriend cuz you know he might love you but yall broke up for a reason and yall will never last.. Choose what your heart tells you...
2006-08-30 04:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah so im gonna go with none of the above as well. it sounds like you're choosing just for the sake of being with someone. if you have to ask yourself which one of 3 people then its simple. its none because if it was one of them you would already know the answer girl!!!!!!
2006-08-30 04:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about option 4. None of the above.
2006-08-30 04:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think none of who u think is ur best friend cuz once u loose a best friend u wont get him back !!
2006-08-30 04:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by xxxXAshXxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋