2006-08-30 04:48:30 · 13 answers · asked by Sal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You suffer from one of man's oldest traumas. You are a product of social, moral, and sexual conditioning which has you, as an adult in a state of constant self doubt and low esteem.
You have to analyze the value, practicality, and logical application of the set of standards that has ruled your life up to now. You must discard the values which cause you to doubt the validity of the actions that feel right to you. Look at yourself without the veil of uncertainty that rancid moral beliefs that have you wondering about your sexuality.
You claim to have a good scholastic education under your belt. Use the knowledge gained from it to start disciplining yourself into modifying your conduct to adjust to the application of the data at hand.
Place a small note on your bathroom mirror which reads: I am beautiful, I am intelligent, I love myself, and read it each morning and evening until it becomes your mantra and you firmly start to change.
Good luck, beautiful!
2006-08-30 05:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did no longer even study something of your positioned up definitely. Jesus how low does he might desire to flow till now you recognize he's a flipping loser. Sweetheart, you recognize those are not basically words. words harm better than any slap, they do no longer depart seen scars yet how plenty time have you ever spent looking interior the mirror attempting to work out the style you will possibly desire to be prettier, the style you will possibly desire to be extra effective? you're alluring I now this without even seeing you. to your individual psychological protection please evaluate getting some help and depart this guy. you think of you adore him, you think of this might get extra effective. you recognize that it is not love and you recognize it won't get extra effective. or you does no longer be searching for suggestion right here. you recognize precisely what a number of those solutions will say. Do extra effective. as quickly as you're with a guy that doesn't basically take exhilaration on your outer attractiveness yet additionally your inner attractiveness then you definately'll recognize this grew to become into properly worth it. stepping into the process the soreness of a ruin up is so properly worth stepping up your standards and assembly an astonishing guy. in case you keep letting this guy drag you down the place will you finally end up? on the backside of an exceptionally unhappy and lonely existence.
2016-11-06 01:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by sokin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see someone (a professional), just to talk to. A lot of time we have "self talk" that is really not very positive... they can help you start to have a better view of who you are and what you do. And... be sure you take time in your life for yourself... pamper yourself sometimes! Go get a massage, take an art class, ride your bike, go out for a romantic dinner with your partner. You have to treat yourself good, too!!! Take care!
2006-08-30 04:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to move, you know change locations ,by changing your geograghical location by at least 400 miles you are entering into a different culture zone and maybe thats what you need to stimulate your life, like if you live on the east coast ask your boss if you can transfer to california, for a change of pace. leave the boyfriend, as he may be whats dragging you down and go by train, meet new people and stimale your life
2006-08-30 04:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I fell down about myself, I go to the gym and work out all my frustrations. It works wonders, and you can burn calories at the same time!. Good Luck! Youre not the only woman that feels like this at times:)
2006-08-30 04:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby ..something you really enjoy doing..whether its sewing, dancing, singing, or playing an instrument. Just spend time getting better at it and you'll get the feeling of accomplishment..it's a good feeling.
2006-08-30 04:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and have some fun...look in the mirror and tell yourself that youre beautiful and happy and theres no need to have low self-esteem.
2006-08-30 04:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by undercover_cosmotelogist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a spiritual workshop like reiki or art of living. get connected with your soul, it will do you good. keep yourself busy and do something which you like the most. if work gives you satisfaction, then work. if you like to shop, then go shopping.
start to love yourself, you'll be just fine.
2006-08-30 04:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by publically_private 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be depressed. Go to a doctor, tell him/her how you feel and get some medication. It worked for me.
2006-08-30 04:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You email me hot pics and I compliment you alot !!! No really, give it a try :o)
2006-08-30 04:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋