I been liven with this guy for almost 8 years.
But I also been writting to this guy on the internet for good wild now , hate to say , will not really but i'm in love with this guy on the internet!
I never meet him or seen him yet, in person, we were cought one's but i'm making sure that my boyfriend that i been living with, does'nt know were still talking!!!
This other( that I meet) , noise about me living with you know who?
Personly i'm stuck with this guy i been liven with all this years, know other way of getting out of it!
What should I do?
2006-08-30 04:39:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first. learn how to talk. u used the wrong words everywhere. second. just leave
2006-08-30 04:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,Are u sure u where stuck for 8 yrs.I mean that is along time to just be stuck with someone.First sweetie,U need to make sure u want to end this 8 yr relationship.I mean Even if Mr Internet wasn't there.would u truly still want out.Because Honey the grass always seems greener on the other side.And u don't really know this person.Until u meet face to face and spend real time together u are not going to know him either.U could end up despising something he does or he u.If u really want out of the relationship.then find get out and then if u still want to meet Mr Internet down the road find.But don't just tr how it all away cause u thing he is the total answer to everything there is no such a thing sweetie no matter where u meet them.NO ONE is prefect.So don't fall for a fairy tail they don't happen.take care and be careful
2006-08-30 11:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u need 2 use the spell checker next time u ask a question. and 2 if all if u wanted to get out of this situation u can. u r displaying that u r not capable of being in a committed relationship and the internet guy will not trust u. ur boyfriend asked u not 2 continue this online affair but now u r wrapped up in cyber love. girl this person can be a serial killer for all u know how can u be in love people lie all the time online u need a reality check
2006-08-30 11:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a way out. And if you aren't happy then you need to find that way.
I understand that being on your own is a scary thing but it is better than being miserable with him.
If you don't work get a job and save your money. And when you got enough funds find your own place wait for him to go to work and move out.
If this isn't possible turn to your parents or friends and ask for help. Maybe they will let you stay with them until you can get on your feet.
And when you leave him don't get involved right away. Stay single for at least a little while. You owe yourself that much.
Because you need to be certain that this other guy is right for you. And that you definitely don't love your previous boyfriend.
Also you should be very Leary of this guy that you have been writing to on-line.
You may think that you know him but truly you don't know.
He is telling you what you should know about him and it could all be lies. See technically he has got you were he wants you feeding out of the palm of his hand.
He has a lot of time to feed you lies. He is just writing what you want to read about him. Before I made this rash decision about him I would meet him first. And in a very public place and with a friend not sitting to far away.
For all you know this guy could be a rapist or murderer. He could be totally psyco. And writing to women on-line could be his mo. This is how he could pick and choose his victims.
Just be really careful.
Don't get me wrong he could be being totally liget. But, I would still take my time once you finally meet him face to face.
You need to get to know the person he is inside and out before you assume that he is the right guy. After all you only know the writer that he is.
I'm telling you he could be 2 totally different people.
Just be careful. You hear horror storys everyday about women and on line dating. Some petafililes use women for money,sex, and all sorts of bad stuff.
Be smart don't become a victim. I know that there are some good stories too. Just be careful.
I don't know what type of relationship you have with your current boyfriend but if it is bad get out. And if it is good and he is good to you then you really need to take a few steps back and take a good hard look at what you may be giving up for a complete stranger.
You don't know this other guy, you could be giving up on a wonderful life with your current boyfriend for a psyco.
Or you could be getting yourself out of a bad situation. And if it is bad get out. But again turn to family and friends to make this transition.
Make sure that the guy you write with on-line is truly what he says he is. And if he is I wish you good luck and lots of happiness.
I hope that you will write again and tell us how things turned out for you. Good Bye and Good Luck.
2006-08-30 12:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was wondering how can you say you have fallen in love with the guy you met on the net when you haven't met him yet? A lot of guys in the net are just pretend people. You should always be sure what you're gettin in to. this guy you've been living with for 8 years has always been there with you and you know him inside out. You should really think clearly, on things that you want to do, before deciding to do it. Weigh things so that you won't be having regrets in the future! If you have really fallen out of love with your live-in partner, then you should tell him honestly, to avoid hurting him so much.
2006-08-30 11:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that u should be stuck with any one. You say u been talking to him for a long time now. How can u even sleep at night??? what type of person are u?? how can u even begin to think that ur in love. were u in love with ur current man??? then what u simply stop loving him or what?? So u thought it was ok to do that behind his back. I seriously can't understand u people. Y u gatta go and hurt ur love ones like that? You should stop being immature, even at ur age, and leave the person that ur with and go do what u please with u stupid laying a_ss life. I'm not trying to sound mean its just that it makes me mad when i see something like this.
2006-08-30 11:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you aren't happy with your current situation. it would be better if you could move out and be on your own for a while. problem is that most women don't put money away for such a situation and they either keep putting up with the guy they are living with or they move out and right in to the new guys place without any time to think for themselves. maybe moving home is an option so you can save up a few dollars and get your own place.
good luck
2006-08-30 11:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't say why ur stuck living with this guy? nobody is forcing you to live with him but you. If ur not happy then get out of the relationship. You need to think long and hard at what you want and then decide what it is you really want but also remember there are two others out there that have feelings too.
2006-08-30 11:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i simply want to say is that every relationship should be base on mutual love. Living with a guy for 8 years is really a long time, but being trap with the guy that you doesn't seem to love is another thing.what i will advise is this.... you know this guy and what he can do this other guy on the internet may be deceptive.. you don't really know him. THEN I WILL ADVISE YOU TO BE PATIENT WITH HIM AND I BELIEVE THINGS WILL WORK THEM SELF OUT.
2006-08-30 11:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by deyorke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think you need to look inside your heart and figure out which guy you truly want to be with. you said you've never met this other guy in person, so how can you honestly know if you want to be with him? he may seem like a nice guy on line but you never know, he could be a pedophile or something like that. and you need to think of your guy friend too, the one you've been living with for the past eight years...you're practically lying to him when you talk to the other guy. if you want to be with the on line guy then you should just tell your "room mate" and get it over with, but you may also want to start shopping for a new place to live.
2006-08-30 11:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by undercover_cosmotelogist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you stuck in the place you are living in? Does he have you tied up in the basement? If you really wanted out you could get out. There is plenty of help out there. Call your family. Stay with a friend. Get out and get some help. Please go back to school and learn how to spell.
2006-08-30 11:43:19 · answer #11 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋