I've asked this question before...
When my boyfriend came home yesterday, I had dinner ready, the house clean and everything was put away. I had been thinking about him all day and was pretty h o r n y. I went down on him and gave him the best b j and told him to get ready becuase when I came out of the shower we would go at it like never before. I tooka shower, came out, and went downstairs and he was watchign a movie - and totally ignored me. I layed down next to him and nothing, he just kept watching the movie. I went to bed and fell asleep thinking he would probably wake me up or something... but he didn't. He slept downstairs...
Now I'm in a bad mood because I didn't get any!!!
Guys, would have returned the favor? Wouldn't you want to get another one anyway?
Don't get me wrong - he's not a bad guy or anything and he's pretty good about keepingme satisfied... but still! What was he thinking?
The b j lasted about 10 minutes before I made him come. He absolutely loved it!
2006-08-30 04:32:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, everything was right for him, the problem is that you gave him dessert before dinner and spoiled his appetite. Try eating a banana split and then having steak. you wont be hungry. Dont make a big deal about it. The truth is its hard for most guys to come twice in a short period of time. Its definately not you, he will probably come back today ready for action, dont reject him, this time it will be your turn for him to return the favor.
2006-08-30 04:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe he did that to you. That sounds so absolutely crazy that I have trouble understanding why he would do that. He ignored you?!?! What's up with that?! You didn't do anything wrong. If that doesn't get a man into bed with you, nothing will. I'm really sorry but I can't give any better answer. Other than perhaps when was it the last time that he has satisfied you? Maybe your relationship isn't in the place you thought it was. Because his behavior seems as if he was trying to make a statement about not wanting to be with you. Does he suspect you of cheating on him? You really have to try to get things sorted out. If a guy rejects you like that, there is a major issue going on with him.
Good luck :)
2006-08-30 04:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately many men just have to be told the facts of life. Have a talk with him and say "I want sex too. The other night u had fun and I said I wanted some and u ignored me. That po'd me and u r not getting any more until u understand me." My guess is he will pout for a while and then understand. If not u may have a real insensitive man.
2006-08-30 04:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was tired and had a long day. Expecting something in return is selfish even though you say you did alot for him before he came home.,and then expect to be made love to. Maybe you should both plan together a nice romantic evening, go out on a date when he doesn't have to work, like on a weekend then you both can stay up all night and do the nasty...
2006-08-30 04:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is an uncaring SOB. If he cared for anything other than himself, he would have been glad to give you attention.
Next time he asks for a bj, refuse and tell him why. THAT will break him of that habit. Ignore the hell outta him when he's horny. See how he likes it.
Next time you're horny, don't give him a bj first. Putting a guy first means they forget about you afterwards. Not all guys, but a good portion of them. You have every right to be angry. I know I would. It's a two way street, not just his own greedy way.
Me, I would have unplugged that damned TV and make him pay attention to me. But, that's just me.
2006-08-30 04:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol... the B.J wud have made him even more tired and sleepy... come on u shudnt be complaining since u know he'z a good guy... he wud have been tired of the days work and just wanted to relax.. rather than get more tired or probably he wasnt in the mood for it...
2006-08-30 04:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by UK GUY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is where he needs to learn about "PC" (***** control). Put it out your mind, make his azz wait and wait and wear skimpy things around him and don't give in, don't you see he has the cow so why buy the milk its free. ha ha, he is just not paying attention to you. disappear on him. you know you can make him think there is someone else in your life, but really its not. use your imagination, change the times you do things he is always expecting you to be there at a appointed time in space.
2006-08-30 04:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by chillierrogue6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would have really been nice if he had returned the favor....talk to him about it, but don't get mad!
After all, the whole scene was your idea, and it's not really a "gift" if you only do it for what you're hoping to get out of it
2006-08-30 04:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is time to sit him down and explain how you feel. If he loves you he will listen and try to be a better lover next time.
2006-08-30 04:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just can't understand you why you keep posting the same questions!
Maybe you are doing the same thing with your boyfriend... repeating the same stuff!! Do you change your underwear? Then change your questions!
2006-08-30 04:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋